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You Hold His Heart In Your Hands

Things are tough these days. It doesn't take a masters in economics to know that there is a dark shadow hanging over the men in our lives.

With women taking more and more of a role in the money making and financial contributions at home, men are struggling to know what we expect from them. There is a primal urge in men to be the protectors and defenders and the stark reality of our national money problems is really shaking things up.

What is a Soul Mate to do?  Learning to MANIFY your man is critical to making him feel cherished, admired and respected. When you are appreciating him like this, affection is the natural result. You are the one reading this article and it is you who can start a change in the atmosphere in your home.

Here are Five Keys To Connecting To Your Man.  Your acceptance of him, especially when he is so uncertain about his role will reap huge rewards for you!

1. Check Your Thoughts At The Door.  Thinking about how he is letting you and the family down is not helping anything. Do a thought audit. Any thoughts that hold an opinion about what he is NOT doing need to be redirected. The easiest way to do this is to put "Even though" at the beginning of the thought and "I choose to love him anyway" at the end. For example:

"He won't ask for more hours and I hate that because if he did, we would havemore money." Changes to: "Even though I hate it when he won't ask for more hours, I choose to love him anyway."

2. Praise Him For What He Is Doing. Ladies, we must be creative. Your man wants to hear how proud you are of him. There are opportunities every day to let him know you appreciate what he is trying to do, ESPECIALLY when you are aware of what he is not doing. Even if it is something like, "Honey, I love how responsible you are about getting to work on time every day." or even "I am so impressed with how hard you work for us." He LOVES your sincere praise.

3. Ask How You Can Support Him.  He may say there is nothing you can do, and that is ok. He has his share of worries. Kindly asking "Is there anything I can do to support you right now?" may help him by opening his mind to asking you for help at a later time.

4. Make Him His Favorite Meal.  This is such a simple but profound way to show your man how important he is to you. The way to a man's heart IS his stomach and a warm meal prepared with love will always make him feel cherished.

5. Invite Him To Have Sex With You.  This may be a challenge for you, especially if you are feeling overwhelmed yourself. Sex is comforting to a man and MANIFIES him like nothing else. Once you are determined to make your man feel cherished and you follow the other steps to connect with him, you will find it much easier to open yourself to a loving encounter.

When you are committed to being a Soul Mate to your man, he will get it. He may not understand what you are doing but he will feel the change in your attitude and you will be amazed at the changes you will see in him!


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