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Then: G-Spot


Now: G-Word

Remember when finding your G-Spot was all the rage?  Some German scientist came out with an article, sending the female population on a search that for some ended in elation and for others in confusion and disappointment.   Did you find yours?  Yes!  And it was wonderful.  Did you?  NO.  Is there something wrong with me? Where exactly is this spot?  It wasn't like finding a city on a map with an an exact longitude or latitude to go by.  Why, even today's new GPS systems wouldn't have been much help back then.

I can't say that I ever did find mine, but it didn't make sex any less enjoyable.  For years I haven't even thought about it.  I'm sure "the" spot is still there, but just as the terrain of the earth has shifted due to forces of nature, gravity may have moved my G-spot a few inches from where it used to be.  

Face it - that G word –Gravity, has a mind of it's own.  And like it or not, it eventually pulls on all of us.   Making us a few inches shorter, a little wider, a little slower as we grow older. Our skin starts to sag, joints creak and those perky body parts start to droop.  

But like it or not, we need gravity to keep us planted on the ground, otherwise we'd be floating around in space.  A little like I feel every time I have a hot flash.  I'm beginning to think that during those hormonal body-quakes  that gravity is taking a leave of absence, leaving me to find solid ground.  Which ultimately happens but not after several tortuous minutes of internal overheating.  

But then there is another G word out there that pulls on me in a totally different way.  And that word is - Grandma.   Hearing it makes my heart swell, speeds up my adrenalin and gives a boost of energy that can't be provided by any drink or pill.  

For those of you who have not yet been called by that name, let me tell you, there is nothing like it.  Even during my hormonal body-quakes that simple word leaves an imprint on my mind.  

There is a special place in my heart where everything Grandma-related resides.  And that spot will never be changed by Gravity.

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