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I just want to once again THANK everyone for their comments and well wishes. When I go into my depression mode, I reread these and it makes me feel better.  

Well, I managed to get out of the bed this morning and go workout. Felt good to get out the house. I was stuck in here, laying in bed crying for two days and watching the Food Network. How depressing?  

Lo and Behold, later yesterday evening I got an actual cell phone call from “Text Boy“. And all you ladies would be so proud of me....I didnt answer the phone!! happy I have caller ID and when I saw his name, it shocked me.(Remember, he never calls ME). Oh the temptation was there. So many mixed emotions. I wanted to answer it and cuss him out, tell him I hate him, tell him I loved him, tell him I couldnt live without him: All in the same sentence. Well he didnt leave a voice message and that was that.  

I got called into work about two hours after he called and began trying to get ready. Later when I was at work, “Text Boy” actually texted me and said, “Hey, I stopped by to say hello but you wasnt home. I guess you moved on.”  

I didnt respond to that either. WTH does he want from me, A Kidney? Blood??, My Soul??? Tell me what you think?

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      Mztracy wrote Nov 12, 2010
    • He texted...‘I guess you moved on’  

      What, is trying to get sympathy or something from you... to make u feel bad? He needs to grow up.  

      Keep on keeping on and you’ll find you DO deserve so much better!! heart



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      (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Nov 13, 2010
    • if you ever reply the following:

      “None of your frick‘g business“.. then he knows you are mad at him but when madness is gone, he will have a chance
      “Yes I have” .. then he thinks you are still kind and will have a chance to take him back
      “No I have not“... then he knows you will take him back

      So, any respond you do, will give him a chance to start a dialogue with you.

      In such case, *IGNORE him is the best route*.

      It’s like quitting a bad habit, you are that far out and please do not let those hard working times of yours be wasted.  You are about to be on a uphill joy ride.  Hold to your standard - you deserve someone that respect and love you.



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      Anne E wrote Nov 13, 2010
    • My guess is he wants compliments and sex from you heartbreak He surely does not deserve either. I’m with Cheria (China Doll)- ignore him and he’ll go away.heart



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      Suzann wrote Nov 13, 2010
    • I totally agree about ignoring him. Yes, you will find someone who does not mess with you like that. Someone who is an adult. I’m so glad you didn’t respond to him!!!! Keep up the great work, okay?



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      Cheekymonkey wrote Nov 13, 2010
    • heart you should be sooo proud of yourself because as the ladies said its like a bad habit and one day or one hour is how to take it. Please dont respond hes like a child any reaction is better than none in his eyes. So give him none. Heal your heart and u will find a true man worthy of sucha kind heart. I know you can do it and I truely know how hard and heartbreaking it is but soon I promise it does ease and your heart fills lighter and happier againu are worth it. Ur happiness matters because ur the only u there isheart



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      Cathie Beck wrote Nov 13, 2010
    • I’m really proud of you! As said, any response would let him think the door is still open to jerk you around. Someone better for you is out there!  

      Cathie



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      Jenz ~ wrote Nov 13, 2010
    • You GO girl!
      Way to GO! YAY!
      That is awesome that you didnt pick up the phone. I remember being in THOSE shoes. You can do this.
      The ladies are absolutely correct too! Any reaction you give him basically ‘writes him a permission slip’ to continue to do what he’s been doing.
      I noticed another thing too- He is a serious MESS if he gives up after a few texts and one phone call. PFFFT! He is not good enough for you. I would want a man that would work alot harder than THAT to win MY heart! Textboy is not the one!
      He probably isnt done trying to contact you yet though.
      Be strong and ignore him. Today is the first day of the rest of your awesome life and he isnt allowed. happy
      Now go step to the mirror and say to your reflection, ‘I ROCK!’  Do it all the time! happy



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      Denise Richardson wrote Nov 13, 2010
    • Yeahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! Good for you, keep on keeping on my sistah! Don’t even think of dignifiying his calls or texts with a response he doesn’t deserve either from you just ignore him like the others have said he is playing games be smarter than him, he already thinks you don’t have the sense enough to know when a game is being played now the ball is in your court he is going to have to figure you out, not that you have to play with him because you don’t! just leave his a** hanging and eventually he’ll get the message, if he tries to show up at your door step call the po-po (police) lol. But I would not have anthing else to do with him, let him find another sucker to play with. Continue in your strength my strong sistah, because you are so better than and deserve better than him.heartheart



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