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(TM)__**so i am about to turn 49 !!!! NO i cant believe it
what happened?
i dont have children or kids,
still feel 20 but my heart is a little older and better yet,
Wiser!!!
i no longer run after the boy who is running after the other girl
and she the other boy and so on
i want so much
and I dont want so much
Do you know what I mean?
I dont want Luke warm life, boys, clothes, friends, family members ( well maybe in that department I cant do anything about it)
Do you feel like the bus to that other life left you and took off without ? Or do you f eel that bus was not for you
and you still are waiting for the right route.
just wondering on this beautiful sunday afternoon in LOs Angeles.



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      Evelyn03 wrote Sep 14, 2008
    • I’m 43, and have been on many buses- all that have taken me in wrong directions.  It’s our turn to be the bus driver, and go in the direction our spirit takes us.  Personally, I’m still giving the bus a tune-up, so I’m idling for a little while.



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      Yolanda Harris wrote Sep 14, 2008
    • Today is`Sept. 14th 2008 and I am on count down for a Birthday and you all can go see my blog and write a Birthday 40+ story for me.

      I’m willing to be a surrogate mother for a friend because she hasn’t married or children after 40+ and she wants a child, so this year my present to her will be ” A friend for life.”

      We are the NEW 20’s and 30“s, we are so young that people are asking me if I’m 27.

      Hey, we did miss the bus we been running around and having life experiences that now til 90+ we got directions.



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      Leeann wrote Sep 14, 2008
    • Well Girls, I have to be the bus driver I get car sick!



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      Livefortoday wrote Sep 14, 2008
    • I’ve randomly question throughout my life whether or not I’m on the right bus as well. My mother always said, if you‘re on that bus, than it’s the right one- so relax and enjoy the bus ride until the next one come along. She’s right.



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      Ladybug wrote Sep 15, 2008
    • There’s always another bus!



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      Successat48 wrote Sep 18, 2008
    • I had my children in my early and late twenties. Wanted more but due to female problems I could not have anymore.
      But, I gained more children thru my kids friends. An  entire basketball team from high school to college. My house was always the house to gather. Now, they are all grown up with lifes of their own. So far out of both teams  four of them have children. The rest including my daughter and son are waiting for the bus.



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      Loli Vasquez wrote Sep 18, 2008
    • you got it my friend it’s all about attitude and you‘re on the right track, i have learned finally at 48! how worthless it is to sweat the small stuff, to pick my battles. Don’t even think about it just keep riding whatever bus you‘re on and you’ll eventually figure out if it’s the right one or not. I love your thoughts too funny!!!!!!!

      Loly
      Miami



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