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NO - I haven’t heard about the job yet (oh swear words!)...  But I did send B a very quick email expressing that I am hurt that he has gone dark on me.  If he is angry with me, he needs to talk to ME about it... I told him I have lots of things to say to him right now, but I won’t say them via email.  Thus, I would like to go out there the first weekend in Dec.  I asked him to please allow me to do that.  I discovered he’s out of the office today, so hopefully I’ll hear from him in the next day or two before the ticket goes up...  

I’ve continued to pray about this and feel this is the right thing to do...  I guess we’ll see what happens...



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      Marie Hempsey wrote Nov 18, 2008
    • You are right , you deserve more than “no explanation” at all! I will pray you get a favorable outcome with your trip! Continued good luck on waiting for a response about the job interview...you must be on pins and needles!~
      Keep us posted!
      Friends,
      Ree



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      Linni wrote Nov 18, 2008
    • Hi sweetie! i agree with Ree! you DESERVE and explaination, and i hope he will do that for you! i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers girl! God is good, and you will be ok!

      Blessings to you
      Linni



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      Linni wrote Nov 18, 2008
    • ps...

       yes, i agree with teeky! CLAIM that Job, and let God do the rest! :) it has your name on it!



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      AnneMarie Kimberling wrote Nov 18, 2008
    • Ladies - thank you... I did get some some explanations - but they were CRAP...  and I need an opportunity to talk... he might not like it, but I’m worth it....  and I do deserve it...



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      Dee Dee Shaw wrote Nov 18, 2008
    • I have a feeling that he is too ashamed of himself to want to see you face to face. If you think it will bring you peace then I hope it works out for you to go. Do ask yourself what you hope to accomplish, and if seeing him would help you achieve that. I am like Teeky about the money. The question I have learned to ask myself is "will I regret it?" Is it more likely that you would regret going or regret not going? When you say "dark" it makes me worry for your safety (emotionally and physically.)But then I don't know enough to have grounds to worry. I just don't like that description. :)



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      AnneMarie Kimberling wrote Nov 18, 2008
    • I will regret NOT going more than anything...  When I say “dark” I mean “silent” - I’m not concerned about my physical safety... and he can’t hurt me any more emotionally than he already has... okay, maybe he can, but...

      He emailed me back saying he’s been very busy with work - his coping mechanism is busy-ness...  but didn’t answer my question, so I responded asking again...

      Boys are stupid...



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      Lisa Middlesworth wrote Nov 18, 2008
    • Amk, you should follow your heart. Even if it’s just to close the door. Sometimes, it’s hard to move forward when you have unanswered questions.  Hopefully, you will get what you need from him. Then, you should be able to move forward without any reservations. Go do your thing Girl!



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