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Do you ever get a case o the ‘What If’s?’
It’s so obnoxious.

If you DO get that, what do you do when it happens to you?

I find myself frustrated in business and in my personal ife sometimes and it happens to me. I dislike it!



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      Mztracy wrote Mar 16, 2011
    • all the time and it is annoying as hell!
      if you find an answer how not to do it, let me know.



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      Jenz ~ wrote Mar 16, 2011
    • Thats the thing! Generally, I never let that get to me but lately ‘it’ creeps up on me more often. Maybe its since I got into a new relationship or something and because I’m frustrated with some financial stuff. BLAH already. Worrying never did anyone any good. Obnoxious I say!



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      Cathie Beck wrote Mar 16, 2011
    • Jenz, my only “What If” of any kind is waiting on the buffo to finalize the divorce he wanted over a year ago. I go over plans of possibilities of Making him do it!  What If I’m obnoxious and cost him more! What if I make legal moves that drags him back to court, and blah blah blah! LOL... as you can see. I’m still stuck here!  

      Cathie



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      Anne E wrote Mar 17, 2011
    • Jen,
      I can totally relate to the What Ifs as I am trying to find a job.  What if I get one soon and all is well.  What if I don’t and I have to go live in some hideous dump.  I hate the either/or aspects of it all!  I hope your What Ifs all go your way!



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      Jenz ~ wrote Mar 17, 2011
    • Awww you guys! I mean GALS! estatic
      I also hope all of your what-ifs go your way!
      BEST to you!
      J~



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      Cathie Beck wrote Mar 17, 2011
    • Thanks, Jen! I hope yours work out for you too. Last night my brother and I were talking about starting a family business.... when I get moved. Now there is a Nice what if! ;oD  

      Cathie



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      Jenz ~ wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • estatic
      That’s super cool!

      Oh I hope so too.. this whole day Ive been sooooo frustrated with business and $ matters. Its crazy right now. NEED MORE WORK! frown



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      Vikki Hall wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • I DO get that way......



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      UK Girl wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • No ...........only because I never listen to the “little voice” I just do it ... but also I do have a plan and I just keep going and eventually things happen - sometimes you just have to hum to drown out the voice and keep on the path

      Not helpful really but have the courage of your convictions and it will work out and have faith and trust in your own ability - usually we are our biggest critic which stops us from doing stuff and the what if’s creep in



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      Denise Richardson wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • Yes Jenz, we’ve all been there I often think and wonder what if I hadn’t did this or that what would have been the outcome, like for instance I was reunited with my old elementary school boyfriend at my high school class reunion 3 years ago and the only reason we parted was because my mom moved the family, we were crazy about one another so I often wonder after seeing him in 2008 would we’ve ever gotten married or how would the relationship had’ve panned out? So there will always be those instances where we go there with the what if’s?



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      Moloco2 wrote Mar 19, 2011
    • Yep, too many “what ifs” in my life - trying hard as hell to eliminate them as we “speak.”



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      Marya1961 wrote Mar 22, 2011
    • I did feel that way in the past, now I see things as a learning experience and sort out the good and bad and go on with patience because to me there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.



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