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I don’t know about anyone else but I am speaking for myself and from my heart, now i am going to get a little strong here. before Christ came into my heart I thought as the world and live like the world, but God began to refined me in so many different ways and as i begin to attach the word of God to my heart, i started to serve God in the fullest of the spirit. And as a single woman i have learn i don’t have to compromise my walk in Christ to settle for what someone who will only give me only half of himself...the pastor say’s every marriage starts off with a first date so if you know you are not equally yoke with that someone meaning their belief’s are different, now their are plenty men and women who says they believe in Jesus and go to church all week long but at the same time believe in sex before marriage and on and on, but what I have learn for myself if i am half stepping in my walk living as the world and if i pray for someone is that prayer going up...GOD says he does not dwell in a unclean vassel, and so if i am living and doing as the rest of the world when i pray for someone are my prayers going up...ummm i don’t think so!..The word say’s..” That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God. Cor 2:5 ...God say’s the prayers of the rightous availeth much! so if i am living like the world doing the thing of the world how am i rightous..... listen satan has been so hot on my trail an old boyfriend from 11 years ago has been begging me to be sexual involved with him really. I guess satan feel because I have no one in my life this would be a way for him to work on my loneness....God will bless me at the time my love story will happen, but if i would allow myself to be apart of someone elses brokeness i will become broken and i want my soul mate to know i waited for him and that’s one of the most inportant things i can give him is my purity in the union to becoming one flesh in Christ....and most folks would say, he really likes you nooooo...satan is using him as a tool to get to me, sex is satan number one tool to use on any man or woman to get his way because the flesh is weak and sex before marriage is fornication and most folks say people sin everyday, now don’t get it twisted when you know it’s wrong and you still continue to do it anyway it’s going to cost you.... what I do today affects my tomorrow if you are saying you are Godly then don’t half step it do God, but if you want to live like the world then do your thang!...Give a smile and be a blessing to someone!


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      Mary Clark wrote Sep 25, 2008
    • You are very correct in everything you said...but let me add one thing....but we are still human beings...and we sin and make mistakes daily.  It is our goal to be as much like strive for that...but we will never...and I mean never measure up to him.  But thank God himself that we were given his grace...(grace:  getting something you don’t deserve)....and if we just accept his son as our Lord and Savior...and ask for forgiveness...he wipes that slate clean.  

      Isn’t that wonderful?

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      Demetra Jolivette wrote Sep 25, 2008
    • Yes Mary you are correct when we repent God is faithful to forgive us.....repent ( meaning to change one’s mind concerning one’s actions) and yes we will never be Christ...but the point is to learn from the lesson and every lesson carriers sin..and in knowning it’s a sin and i keep repeating it, it will cost...when you become save you become accountable...Hebrews 5:13-14...For everyone that useth milk is unskillful in the word of righteousness: for he is a babe. But strong meat belongeth to them that are full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil. and God’s word say’s it’s better to not know my word then to know my word and do.

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      Mary Clark wrote Sep 25, 2008
    • Oh absolutely...I do believe God expects you to learn from your mistakes or sins....but he knows we are humans...and we will mess up....but he is such a forgiving God.  Not that I’m going to do something sinful over and over again and then just keep asking for forgiveness. You strive to do what God has commanded us to do....but we will never be perfect....and I do believe we are accountable....but I have to believe too that if God knows I am trying....and he does......he will bless me for trying to do what he expects and has commaned me to do.  

      Right now...we are on the practice field....the real game is called Eternal Life....

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      Our pastor has had some awesome sermons....the series we are on now is called’s a great series for New Christians... that I am’s good anyway.  

      Just thought I would share it....

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