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Last November I blogged about my husband throwing me a curveball and putting himself on unemployment. The advice and support I received from many of you was amazing. Well its been a year ... unemployment has ended and miraculously, his employment status went back to full time once he realized I wasn’t giving or paying any more money to him.
Well, during this year I have taken stock of my marriage, my life, my self. What can be fixed, I have fixed, what cannot be repaired I have decided to cut loose. The looser in this is my marriage. After a year of trying to work out the kinks, he sees everything as my fault ... I’ve changed, I should do more ... and yes, I have decided to do more. I have decided to end this. And so, as the year ends so does my marriage of 15 years.
Here’s the strange thing ... I’m not sad, I’m at peace. At last my daughters will not be on pins and needles, never knowing what mood he will be in. They too will be at peace.
I just wanted to thank all of you for your great advice a year ago.