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What hits me today is...women being prepare for married life, I am speaking on this because I myself was married for 17yrs and have been divorce for 14yrs and sometimes, when a couple come from disfunctional back grounds it will cause issues in the marriage and one person will grow and the other will not....but are we fulfilling our wifely duties as it should be.... one of my male friends are contemplating on the out come of his marriage and as a christian does not want to go against the will of God....And this is especially for the women of God....there’s a saying if you don’t handle your business when it comes to your man someone out there will fix him a very good bologna sandwich with the mayo of his choice, the reason I say this is when you are single your first priority is Jesus, but when you are married you first priority is your Husband. 1 Corinthians 7-34...say’s...

There is a difference also between a wife and a virgin(single woman)...The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. Now I know every marriage has it’s issues, but it breaks my heart to know that someone has a team player in marriage and the needs are not being meet...when you are married of course you serve the lord but you don’t dive in everything in the church and your husband is coming up short, the house is dirty, no food cooked for him and you are not nurturing your man...read the word of God clearly. when husband and wife is not on the same accord the marriage is not being blessed...I am going to get real with you here, this is how it start the issues of stopping the romance the love making and friendship, allow things to separate you off the path of what you are to be doing as a wife, the woman is the soft side of her man....  

And a man is as great as his woman is in him. Don’t allow satan to manipulate you it thinking it’s ok to make your husband wait because the church or other things can’t do without you.check out Proverbs 31-10 virtuous woman....Pour nothing but love into your man nurture him and build him up through the love of God so when the world come against him he can stand and know that his woman that stands beside him is a great woman in his sight and the sight of God...Let’s be the women of VIRTUE!...STAY IN THE WILL OF GOD.



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      Yolanda Harris wrote Oct 1, 2008
    • PAUL IN THE SCRIPTURES SAID: READING BEFORE THE 34 VERSE:
      1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.[a] 2But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
      [ A MAN OR WOMAN IN THE SPIRIT CAN COMPREHEND THIS CLEARLY] NOT TEMPTATION OF A SANDWICH CAN EXCUSE THE REASON FOR HER ABSENCES TO THE CHURCH:

      9:But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
      [ EVEN HERE THE SPIRIT OF THE LORD SHOWS US THAT YOU DO NOT MARRY JUST TO HAVE LEGAL RELIGIOUS SEX]

      THIS IS A LETTER FROM PAUL; THE SAME PAUL THAT SAID WOMEN SHOULD NOT SPEAK IN CHURCH OR BE HEARD ....

       VERSES 32;I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33;But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34;and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35;I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.

      BUT A EQUALLY YOKED COUPLE WOULD SEE THIS VERSE AND KNOW THAT SHE IS NOT WRONG NOR HIM IF HIS DUTY IS TO BE A GOOD STEWARD OF THE WORD IT IS ALL WORKED OUT THROUGH WORKS OF THEIR FAITH.

      HEBREWS:
      21;and since we have a great priest over the house of God, 22;let us draw near to God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water. 23;Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful. 24;And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.  

      25;Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

       26;If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left,

      NOW IF HE HAS ANYMORE QUESTIONS TO WHETHER HIS FAITH IS WAVERING ; ASK HIM TO PRAY
      FOCUS ON HIS REAL DESIRES; AND WHO IS HE REALLY SERVING?
      EVEN AS A MARRIED COUPLE THERE IS BALANCE, EQUALITY AND ACKNOWLEDGMENT THAT WE DID NOT MARRY FOR RECREATIONAL SEX AND A SLAVE OR A SERVANT FOR OURSELVES OR ID‘S OR EGO; WE ARE CREATED FOR ONE PURPOSE AND DO NOT GET IT TWISTED, WE WERE MADE TO SERVE LORD ALMIGHTY
      AND PAUL ONLY WROTE A LETTER TO ASSIST THOSE THAT BURNED WITH PASSION AND WERE FORNICATING AND COMMITTING ADULTERY NOT TO TAKE AWAY FROM OUR PRAISE, DEVOTION AND DEDICATION. IT WAS A WARNING OF WHAT WILL HAPPEN WHEN YOU MARRY IF UNEQUALLY YOKED AND NOT AWARE OF ALL YOUR COMMANDMENTS AND INSTRUCTIONS.

      THEOCRACY WHICH MEANS -
      THE RULE OF GOD
      HAS IN CENTURIES LOST IT‘S MEANING INSIDE RELIGION AND TRANSLATION AND RE-WRITING THE BIBLES

      AD 38 ANCIENT HEBREWS CONSTITUTION AND THE ROLE OF MOSAIC LAW WAS THE POSITIVE LAW UNTIL FALLACIES CAME IN THE DISCOVERY OF HUMAN MANKIND BECOMING MORE CORRUPT AND CONTROLLING UPON THE WOMEN, IT IS FORGOTTEN THAT MARY WAS FIRST TO SEE CHRIST AND WHAT CHRIST SAID ABOUT HER ABOVE ALL 12 DISCIPLES.

      WOMEN IN THE AMERICAN EXPERIENCE WOULD ENLIGHTEN MOST WOMEN BUT DID SOJOURNER TRUTH NOT LIVE HER WILL OG GOD WHEN SHE PERFORMED GOD‘S WILL ? HER HUSBAND TURNED HER IN TO THE SLAVE MASTER/ OWNER BECAUSE SHE WOULDN‘T OBEY HER HUSBAND....SO LIKE THAT FEVERISH MOMENTS THE WIFE IS RECEIVING HER CALLING AND HUSBAND IS HUNGRY AND ALONE ; DOES THAT EXCUSE HIM ; NO
      GO BACK TO :
      5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
      REMIND BOTH MARRIED PARTNERS

      HE CAN TAKE CARE OF THE HOUSE FOR A WHILE IT IS EQUALITY NOT A MAJORITY AND A RULE OVER MEN OVER WOMEN AND PAUL DID SAY WOMEN COULDN‘T BE PASTORS OR PREACHERS, ALSO

      SO WHERE YOU STAND THERE ?

      GO BACK TO MYSTICISM BEFORE RELIGION AND SEE THAT GOD NEVER INTENDED FOR MAN OR IT TO BE WRITTEN THAT MAN DOMINATES AND CAST A ROLE FOR WOMEN TO ADHERE ABOVE HER DUTIES TO BE THE VESSEL TO BE A GOOD STEWARD OF HIS WORD AND WORKS.

      BY NO MEANS - NEGLECT YOUR COMMITMENT AND VOW THAT ONLY ONE CONTRACT ON EARTH DO TWO SAY:
      ALLOW WHAT GOD HAS PUT TOGETHER LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER.

      DISTRACTION AND COMPULSION IS A SPIRIT NOT OF GOD



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      Demetra Jolivette wrote Oct 1, 2008
    • Ayanda you don’t know me nor do I no you and my intend is not to argue the word of god... it’s to put out what hit’s my spirit....now why you have taken it to offense is not my ball to carry, and if any woman is with a man who is abusing her in anyway needs to get out of it....My father killed my Mother 45 years ago and I have never allow myself to get into any type of abusive relationships and I pray the same for other, my decision here is base on people I personally know and decisions I have had with women and men...and also men are suppose to be on there job as well when it come to their woman..but thats a pass decision that is posted on my myspace before I became a member here. Be Blessed



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      Yolanda Harris wrote Oct 16, 2008
    • Demetra
      Ladybug, told me of your story and challenges and I can hear the pain in your reply; We are all here to discuss our views and nothing more. I am here if you want to chat and talk ; I only gave straight scripture messages for reference that my opinion is removed. I am so very sorry for the pain of your loss and I will PRAY hard and incessantly for your memory to fade to a softer side.
      Be blessed in all you do ;
      Love
      Ayanda



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