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Twice I have watched Richard Anton Diaz work his touch magic on a lovely naked model gracing his massage table in a demonstration of Orgasmic Providing. Both were extraordinary events, so above anything I've ever witnessed as a peripatetic sex journalist that I cannot put them into one of the usual categories, like Tantra/WooWoo and Relationship Yada, Yada, Yada. Anton operates from a place of great integrity and intelligence, attracts like-minded people--and takes everyone in the room on a spiritual sexual journey at Sexy Spirits a not-for-profit sex education center in midtown Manhattan.
Each time the audience was composed mainly of men who watched in rapt and respectful silence as he massaged all the woman's body before moving, at last, to her vulva. The first model seemed to go quietly and deeply within herself during genital massage, gently pulsating beneath Anton's fingers, her being defined by her sweet, bare little pussy. The second goddess, a little hair covering her mons, writhed and throbbed, wailed and moaned as she came—and even talked to the audience at times. Her prominent proud clitoris and her full juicy lips, purple in their passion, claimed pleasure. She made frequent eye contact with Anton in a power gaze of charged energies exchanged.
And she ejaculated. Copiously. Towels were placed around to catch the overflow.
Her pussy was positioned away from the audience, but a camera focused exactly on her so that we could see (almost as if they were 6 inches away) every detail of her, as well as how Anton stroked her, on the screen above them.
"The camera gives her more privacy because her pussy is not fully exposed," he says. "The audience is not focusing on her but on the image on the screen. They can see the orgasmic pulsing. And I want their attention on the strokes as that is happening."
Yes, our attention was on the strokes—and, in this case, the generous squirts of fluid shooting out.
Some women are squirters, at least occasionally, most likely with G spot stimulation—which this goddess did not have. (Though Anton's Orgasmic Providing strokes include internal ones, his fingers did not leave her clit and labia.) Many Western sex experts dismiss the "ejaculate" as merely a gush of fluid composed of urine and copious vaginal secretions. Others believe it is fluid from the Skene's glands, a string of several masses of tissue, embedded in the urethra, which when stimulated sexually in some women, releases the fluids into the urethral canal. Devotees of Amrita, the "nectar of the goddess", base their cult on ancient Tantric writings. Men ejaculate sperm from the testicles via tubes that go through the prostate gland where the sperm mixes with seminal fluid—a very clear process that everyone understands.. There is no question that whatever this fluid that some women "ejaculate" or squirt, upon orgasm is—it is not the female equivalent of seminal fluid. Strictly speaking, there is no female ejaculate or ejaculation.
If not ejaculate, what? Something does happen for many women though no one [Sorry, Amritas.] has answered definitively the question: Pee or nectar? I lean toward the Skeen's glands theory because it makes the most sense to me.
Female ejaculation isn't exactly a technique. If you want to try to make it happen, use G spot stimulation and don't hold back when you feel the urge to urinate. Bear down. Anton's goddess of the Amrita drinks water before the demonstration. Some women empty their bladders before trying to squirt because they want to be absolutely sure they aren't peeing. Whatever soaks your towels!
I have squirted on rare occasion, always involving a lot of oral and manual play, a large dick and too much wine. One time was particularly memorable—a hottest ever sex adventure, a Friend with Benefits in Soho two days before Christmas some years ago.
Anton’s next demonstration is Monday June 1. Check the Sexy Spirits website for more information and registration.
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This reminds me of the SATC episode where Samantha is with her lesbian GF. I had never known about squirting before that!
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Im guilty!!! It does happen ladies.........and its oh so nice!!
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“. . .always involving a lot of oral and manual play, a large dick and too much wine.” LOL!
Interesting article, as always. That has never happened to me, but I have heard about it.
MB
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Hello Susan, I truly enjoyed this post for I am one who is deeply into sexual pleasures and I love it when a man takes out the time to learn the nature of a woman’s vagina and all it entails to bring her to that ultimate orgasm. I have had the experience of squirting also withthe right someone who knew what he was doing and it is something so wonderful full of ecstacy. In my opinion if men took the time to really learn the attributes of the female anatomy there is no telling what pleasure they can give her just by doing simple touches in the right places.
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I totally agree with Denise. She said it all so right and every bit true. There is no orgasm like squirting. I think also that a woman needs to be in tune with her own body and her own sexuality. And you definitely have to be in tune with each other.
Susan, what an emotional word picture.
I am wondering how much squirting is going on in the audience while watching this.
OMG... I think I need some air!
cyn
I have a girlfriend who swears this happens to her. Alas, I’ve never had the experience.
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What great sexy babes you are.....
thanks for reading and responding.
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