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For some reason men and women’s taste in this department run in different directions. If your lingerie has several cut-outs for protruding body parts, accented with fur or feathers, it is probably for him. Unfortunately while most women are thinking, soft, flowing, and feminine, Victoria’s Secret, most men are thinking Halloween and x-rated movies.  

Is it your favorite color or his?  

This is a big hint. If it’s for you, he will pain stakenly travel many a mile to every store he knows, just to get that one perfect piece of lingerie that comes in your absolute favorite color. I don’t know about you ladies, but I really got sick of black, and NO that’s not MY favorite color.  

Is it in your size?  

Uh oh, you may have found the lingerie he had planned for his mistress. Darn it, why are they always so darn thin? Hopefully, he is just the typical husband or boyfriend and knows nothing about sizes. I tried wearing one once that was bought for me just a little bit too small, well if rolls could talk. If it’s not for someone else, just be kind and say, thanks honey for thinking I’m that small. Then lie, and only asked for one size larger!  

This is my lighthearted look at the ways to tell if the lingerie he bought was really for you or for him.


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