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I’m new here. Definately need to talk about intimacy issues. My husband is not the most romantic type of guy. I want more intimacy in our relationship but no matter what I do, it just never happens. I really think at this point after 15 never will. And I want it and I need it, but I’m not gonna get itfrown
Would love to chat.


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      Lisa Brunner wrote May 21, 2009
    • Jackie,

      Intimicy can dissapear after being with each other for a long time or even a short time as we all get into the hum drum, see the same person all the time boring stuff.  My best advice is to spice things up a bit.  Surprise him when he gets home with something sassy, kinky or different than what you have ever did before.  Also a nice little get away for just the two of you is nice.  Have you talked to him and told him what you want.  Does he know or are you just hinting around and he is not getting it.  

      I have other ideas and if you want to chat, add me as a friend and I will see if I can help.  I have only been with my fiance for 3 years and he is already seems to like to hit the pillow and fall asleep and I am sitting there ummmm!! hello.  I think men are good for that after they get comfortable in their relationship,  I hear it from all of my friends.  I make sure to everyonce in a while do something very creative and it seems to spice things up, at least for a while. LOL.  


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