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My career in Hollywood has been varied, to say the least.  For three years, I served as Musical Director on “The Young and the Restless,” for which I was fortunate enough to win an Emmy.  From there I moved to sitcom writing, where I penned scripts for “The Nanny” (CBS) and “Living Single” (FOX).  Next, I landed staff writing and producing gigs on “For Your Love” (NBC/WB) and “Half & Half (UPN).  Following that I helped produce the soon-to-be-released documentary, “A Musical Journey To Freedom.”  

But it is my most recent endeavor that has me most excited.  I have just released an eye-opening new book that has been receiving rave reviews.  Titled, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think," this humorous journey into the seamy underbelly of the male mind exposes all men's dirty little secrets.  Inspired by my many years as a "relationship advice guru," I have packed this book with startling revelations that are sure to shock, amuse and enlighten.  Check it out at www.EveryManSeesYouNaked.com.

If you have any questions about men and relationships, dating or sex, please feel free to email them to me at: david@everymanseesyounaked.com.  I will try to answer as many as I possibly can here in my column.


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    • yanira wrote 22 days ago

    • Dear David, thank you for finding the time and thank you for answering my question. I will do what you just told me and I will go from there.
      And yes, you can publish my letter if you wish to do.

      Love,
      Yanira.


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    • brandy wrote 30 days ago

    • Slatrn,

      Thank you for your response.I understand you 100%. God knows how much we care for each other. If I am such a selfish person,i could of been involve with him physically  3 yrs. ago. We are so lucky to be conscious enough to do the right thing. Unfortunately, we can’t just cut off our relationship as best friends. Actually we are more than friends.Our love is unconditional.
      I can’t be friends with his girlfriend either just because she knew me as his best friend 20 yrs. ago and he told her how he felt about me. She didn’t like that.I can’t blame her but at least she should try to be friends with me too if one day he will tell her that my friend found me. I strongly doubt it.She has issues with me. I think she should start to ask herself why their relationship is not working even before i came in the picture.Maybe she should do a lot of soul searching and needs to pay attention when my friend is talking about things. Maybe she will start seeing what i am seeing in him as a person and maybe she will be able to accept me as her friend.  

      brandy


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    • slatrn wrote Oct 8, 2008

    • Brandy,

      as a woman who’s husband has a really close internet friend who is just trying to give him friendship and support, i can say you are damaging his relationship as well as your own.  this is an emotional affair, not physical yet but certainly heading in that direction.  If you truly want to remain friends with this man, make friends with his girl and do things as couples.  Just one woman’s opinion….


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    • slatrn wrote Oct 8, 2008

    • Dear Lovely 50.

      I think that it means you should run away really really fast.  :(

      I am always amazed how men can just get away with stuff like this.


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    • slatrn wrote Oct 8, 2008

    • I have been reading your blogs since joining this site.  So my real question is….Do men think that internet dating is cheating ?  Why do men cheat??????


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    • peejay64 wrote Sep 29, 2008

    • momof6 and David!

      While I haven’t come across any websites….and believe me, I check!  I notice my husband noticing other woman a lot lately.  I’m in pretty good shape, take really good care of myself & my appearance.  So it’s not like I’ve let myself go or anything.  So I I wonder, is it just something middle-aged guys who’ve been married for dozens of years start to do?  Is it something like mentioned in the movie “Moonstruck“...that men do such things because they fear death?  And this is why they start looking at other women?  Sorry for rambling, it’s just something that’s been on my mind a lot lately and it’s really bugging me!


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    • brandy wrote Sep 27, 2008

    • I have a best friend of more than 20 yrs. We got separated back 1990 and lost tract of each other.We found each other again 3 yrs. ago. Back then we developed a strong friendship but deep in our hearts,we knew we love each other..We just never had a chance to tell each other that. Now,we have the chance but we are involve with somebody. He is with this girl for more than 17 yrs., never married,no kids and on my side i am single but in a relationship with this guy for 11 yrs. We are both staying for a reason. He’s been having problem with his relationship for the last 6 yrs.He told me too that’s he’s been looking all over for me for a long time,trying to find me in the internet but no result. The point is, we love each other so much that it hurts inside just because we can’t be together right now. It is the wrong time.We only seen each other 3x,a couple of hours each time. We are trying to do the right thing. We haven’t have sex yet.So difficult esp. if he is your best friend. I can’t tell him to leave his girlfriend. Instead, i told him to work it out, if he thinks he can see himself being with her for another 10 yrs. or less. If he actually love her, maybe he should work things out. I am suppose to be here to listen,not to criticize,not to judge  but to support him in any way i can. that’s how much i love him as a person. Is it true that affairs of the heart is worst than physical affair? Why am i feeling like dying here?


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    • marci8 wrote Sep 26, 2008

    • once you have a man and his interest how does one keep him for the long run? Why do others stray and why are those that stay? Is it just a matter of the persons character that you picked?


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    • yanira wrote Sep 25, 2008

    • I am 43 and i think I look pretty hot! my husband hardly touch me, but I see him touching his private part when I am not there and when I catch him and look at  me does not look like he wants to even try to have sex with me…why is he doing that? and he says he loves me and bla, bla, bla….i am about to give up!!!!


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    • mo_m wrote Sep 25, 2008

    • I have been with my boyfriend(is there a better descriptor?) for 3+ years.  He complains often about my 17 year old daughter.  We can all be together and she will tease him or just say something and he will get up and leave, then call me and tell me why he left.  (We do not live together.)  I have spoke with my daughter and she doesn’t feel that she has done anything wrong.  Any suggestions?


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