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  • 17 year old daughter now living at her dads

    7 posts, 5 voices, 997 views, started Jan 4, 2009

    Posted on Sunday, January 4, 2009 by Kimberly OLeary

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    • Amethyst
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      well my dd is now living with her dad an hour away... she was in a small school here and is the top 2nd in her graduating class.... don’t know why she wanted to give that up... well except for all the freedom daddy gives her. and she always runs to him when she gets in trouble with stuff at my house. well 3 times is too many running away from me so i’m glad not to be in that drama anymore!!! i have 2 small children and my dd is always sneaking and lying to me with her dad and stepmom having everything to do with that... i’m glad our roles will now change... i’m now the “visiting” parent and he’s got to parent her. well don’t know how that’s gonna go. he doesn’t do that now. he lets boys spend the night and takes her to bars until late at night. well sorry to ramble.... hope everyone has a wonderful year!!!!!!



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • Well he’s in for a bigger shock than he’ll be able to handle sounds like to me, if he’s allowing boys to sleep over and taking her to bars. A caution to you, get your self ready for grandparenting 101 if this keeps up with him and her.



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          Kimberly OLeary wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • yea i know... she has a boyfriend that lives around my area and i don’t know if she’s having sex with him, she says no but haha don’t we know better... well she knows how babies are made and has been there with me thru my 2 pregnancies and the birth of her 14 month old brother.... and she does want to be a mother... she’s straight A student also and wants to be a RN.... hope she makes it...



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • Well my blessings are with you and your family.



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          Leadinladytracy wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • I would advise you take her to the doctor so she can protect herself. She has a boyfriend and if they are not doing anything, they may start. Better to be safe than sorry.



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          Kimberly OLeary wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • oh i’m sure her dad or stepmom has... they tried to pull that behind my back a few years ago... like i’m not her mother and i’m not supposed to know anything about my dd.... go figure!!!  i’ve been dealing with this crap for 12 years... so glad that i’m not dealing with it directly now... takes a load off my shoulders... don’t get me wrong, it upsets me very much that my dd is not here with me but she talked so bad about me and my dh and her oldest brother in our neighborhood and we just can’t take it anymore... it’s a shame because she’s a beautiful intelligent girl... guess she’ll learn.....thanks everyone for your support...



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