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  • 2009-01-03 from BJ

    27 posts, 15 voices, 1520 views, started Jan 3, 2009

    Posted on Saturday, January 3, 2009 by (華娃娃) ChinaDoll

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      Women are disposable assets
      Posted on January 3, 2009 by freemenow
      Another Rant by:  BettyJean Kling

      Have they so brainwashed us from birth that girls are inferior that even we believe that collectively we ARE  less valuable and therefore disposable? Below I want to share what can happen to your daughters because we do not stand up for our daughters- because we do not have laws that demand respect for females from birth to death. Because we do not forbid degradation of females in every way shape and form. It should and must be illegal. First hear my rage – then see what you are allowing – then promise me you will immediately begin to boycott the products and help me pass laws to stop this- Will you join me or will you help them murder more women?

      I am enraged! After the above video - I know you must be too- Let's roll!

      Today the doctors told me my baby will not make it - her brains have been blown out and what is left are closing down. The bastard who blew her brains out is strutting around the jailhouse watching TV and pumping iron and feeling like a macho man while I am crying my heart our watching my beautiful baby girl die slowly day by day! He did this out of rage – what do I do with my rage?

      !http://images.fabulously40.com/uploadedimage/4851/thumbx320/louisa.1.gif! Do you want to see rage? Come see my daughter's face now! I want to rip his eyes out of his ugly head but that won't stop my rage! I want to stop my unbearable pain and agony but there is no stopping this pain - nothing will end this not now not ever. Nothing will keep the sight of my daughter's once beautiful face now mangled with half of her head gone from my horror filled dreams. Nothing will remove from my nightmares the look of her one remaining eye that stares at me blankly when before they both danced like fireworks on the Fourth of July whether she was happy or angry - it did not matter Louisa had eyes that spoke loud and clear — now one was blow to kingdom come and the other will never see again.

      I beg for hours every day - Louisa please see me – but she sees nothing.  Louisa please hear mommy but she hears nothing. Louisa can you squeeze mommy's hand and then she squeezes it and I jump for joy but she can't do it again – it was just a reflex they say and my heart dies again and I wail and can not be consoled. And every day they tell me she is slipping farther and farther away and my heart is breaking farther and farther apart. Her sister Denise grows weaker and weaker. Between filing lawsuits against every woman in the family my son Tommy and son-in-law Frank grow meaner and meaner and the blame game gets greater and greater as they both try find a women to lay this all on- and use the unconscious woman in the bed as the all to convenient tool of choice since she can't refuse to be used against the rest of us.

      And the animal who is really to blame for all this violence and carnage thinks it sucks that he can't call his wife from jail. He sent a letter wishing us a Merry Christmas and asked us to please inform him when his wife dies of cancer, He also let us know he is praying for Louisa and is so sorry he mistook her for me!I can now sleep much better knowing my daughter took the bullets meant for me and the two sons have yet more fodder for their hate arsenal- thanks George and thanks to the Bergen Co. NJ  jail for allowing George to contact the family after the judge restricted him from doing so!  Great damage control - George is still firing across the bow and allowed to inflict damage on this family.

       Tell me – what do I do with this rage while I wait for these two beautiful girl to breath their last breath? In 2009 – I may be burying two daughters —  both the victims of men's disrespect for women. Both are victims of our failure to teach men that women are valuable human beings and both victims of a law that stopped short of keeping a repeat offended from killing my daughter. When will we learn that the problem really starts from the time a child is born females are belittled and males are elevated—females are taught to receed and self loath and males are taught to succeed and loath the weaker. Women are taught to be sexualized and men are taught to use them as sex objects then dispose of them like so much garbage.  When will we as women learn not to buy it anymore? Look at the ads and explain to me why you would support a product that degrades you? Why are you supporting anything or anyone that degrades womankind? STOP - stop it NOW!

      Thank you for listening and I hope you really heard me and yes there is much we can do - we can get moving- really really moving. The only thing we can change is the way we accept ourselves. We must change us. Free US Now means that we need to stop the way we treat females in this country NOW from the very minute we are born we are treated less than and even we believe that we are less than - so much so that we do not fight for ourselves as a whole - we may fight for ourselves as individuals and our friends and families but not for womankind- we have been brainwashed that we are not worth it.

      Please join me in our effort to change this NOW. We need a campaign and I need all 52% of the women in this country and as many of the men - real men to stand with us - we need at least a full generation to make this change and must start now.

      Pass this video around to everyone you know: Get others to look at this video

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      Let's set up a meet-up in every state and get going. Birth to Death - we have a right to respect- and we damned well are going to demand it! Minorities get it - animals get it - but we – the silent majority - won't even lift a finger and ask for it- we are like lambs brought to slaughter. No more – Let's fight back Pass Louisa's Law.


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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jan 3, 2009
        • I am so sorry.  I am speechless after reading this, knowing Lousia’s is slipping away and yet you are holding on every single tiny hope.  I am a mother and I just can imagine the pain and agony you are going through.  I asked Blessed Virgin Mary to accompany you through this difficult journey.  You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers continuously.  

          I’d like to know who I can help with Louisa’s Law.  Please let us know - in small to large scale.



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          UK Girl wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • I can  hardly see with tears rolling down my face - I’m lost for words Bettyjean ......
          Your in my thoughts and prayers ....



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          UK Girl wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • Sunflowers are the image of hope in the UK ...



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • An old Irish prayer

          Remembered Joy
          Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free!
          I follow the plan God laid for me.
          I saw His face, I heard His call,
          I took His hand and left it all...
          I could not stay another day,
          To love, to laugh, to work or play;
          Tasks left undone must stay that way.
          And if my parting has left a void,
          Then fill it with remembered joy.
          A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss...
          Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss.
          My life’s been full, I’ve savoured much:
          Good times, good friends, a loved-one’s touch.
          Perhaps my time seemed all too brief—
          Don’t shorten yours with undue grief.
          Be not burdened with tears of sorrow,
          Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.



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          Psalmist wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • My heart is praying for you and your family BJ, because i have no words of my own.



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          Karyn Olson wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • I am at a loss for words...and angry at the same time...I feel for you and will be praying for you and your family...



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • I know most of us are encouraging many emotions right now.  Some are crying.  Some are angry.  Some are speechless.  Some feel helpless.  

          I am asking you to google image, place a picture of flowers, or candles here.  That’s all you need so that the family knows we are thinking of them.  Sometimes words are not needed at this moment.  Would you do that?  Please... thank you.



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • See these flowers, BJ.
          It bloomed so pretty and bright.
          However, there will come a time
          It has to depart
          But remember the pollens
          It spreads for miles
          Bring more smiles
          though tears were the water
          that kept them alive for awhile.



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          Shopgirl1960 wrote Jan 4, 2009

        • For Our Dearest Louisa



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          Almostfive0 wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • My deepest condolences..I am so sorry.
          Much love
          Carol



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          Psalmist wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • Love multiplies only when you give it away...



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          Mztracy wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • After seeing the video I cannot use the words to describe my feelings on it here. Complete and utter disgust are not strong enough.

          [Link Removed] This is a link to a man who protected his daughter from her abuser and will now, most likely die in jail! For what...for saving one woman from her death?

          I am so truly sorry BJ for all the pain and horror you and your family have gone through and continue to go through. You and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.  

          Women, we must say NO to this kind of advertising. Do not buy the products. Women do not pose for these photos. Is the money truly worth this?  

          There will be those who say, then do not look if you do not like. That is not the problem, it is those who choose to look and find some sick reasoning behind the photos.  

          Mothers, teach your daughters and sons to not accept abuse of any kind. They are our futures!
          Blessings


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          Cynthia Schmidt wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • I’m sending you a beautiful rainbow resting on a quiet and peaceful harbor. May God work wonders in your life and family at this most painful time.



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • Mztracy: Thank you.  We need to post all the products or line of services that are against our social value.  Anyone knows if there is a list out there?



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • From BJ (freemenow) on January 4th, 2009 at 5:02 pm Said:
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          Thank You all- and yes I do need you - I need you all and we all need each other. I will turn away NO help whatsoever.
          I am exhausted- - I am trying to keep this on the front burner- keep it front and center out of fear - my daughters eill be forgotten like so many before them and so many after them will also fall.
          Pleases don't let this happen- In case I stumble hold me up- In case I cry - shout with me- let us not let another mother walk alone- not another daughter die in vain- let's unite and show the world that we are one force they will never forget . Thank you Topher for leading us off- I was weary and you picked up my pace when I saw your signature - I was happy to see a male on our side- I am surrounded right now will unfriendly males - Your note gave me hope that many of you will join us . This world will be a better place when real men join us to rid the world of the scum that has brought shame to mankind and harmed womankind.
          And ladies- thanks you for your loving kindness- I am beginning to feel heard and While I am broken I feel help coming and for the first time- I believe we are ready to unite and take it to them like they will never forget.. Let's roll.


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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jan 4, 2009
        • From BJ (freemenow) on January 5th, 2009 at 12:36 am Said:
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          I read these comments and I am overwhelmed by the injustice to womankind and I am in awe of the power i see blooming! We have been wounded deeply but we are not so wounded that we can not fight back- this year has been such an eye opener for us - asll that has happened was so blatant so horrorfying so devasting that we can not must will not turn the other cheek this time- no- not this time. this time they will see and hear us coming - and they will not believe it - but we will not turn back - not this time!


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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jan 5, 2009
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          freemenow, on January 5th, 2009 at 6:10 pm Said:

          Indeed- it is up to us - we must Roar and we must roar now and not stop until the violence stops. We must rise up in numbers that will shock the world in a wave that will shock the world and in such a way and with with such courage and in such unison movement so that nothing they do or say can sway us.

          There is no issue that stands between us as women - this is the issue that unites us ! We are human beings in crisis - there is an epidemic slautering us- and only we can stop it by standing together!

          Thank you for standing with us! Soon - any day now - our numbers will swell to an army large enough for our roar to be heard round the world!

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          freemenow, on January 5th, 2009 at 6:25 pm Said:

          As for getting through the pain- there is no getting through the pain! I have not gotten over the pain of loosing my son to cancer 8 years ago, nor the pain of watching Denise as her body has been succumbing to cancer these last 25 months. But this - this sensless shooting- and now to have to bear the shock of having my baby girl violently and viciously shot in the head for no damned reason at all!

          There are no words to describe my pain - my agony and there will be no getting over the loss of three children out of 4. Not now - no - not ever in this lifetime!

          The only thing in this world that can possibly bring me any peace is that we use Louisa's tragedy to pass a law that will prevent other women from this unbearable pain. If my daughter's horror comes to good - only then will I be quieted in some small way. She can not - I repeat she can not die in vain!

          Louisa is slipping away- and I promised her - she will not go without leaving her mark on this world! I promised her that her sacrifice would not be in vain- I told her that the puma in her would not be forgotten and her light would not be dimmed! I promised!


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          Inakika wrote Jan 5, 2009
        • Louisa, I’m so sorry



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          Lisab41 wrote Jan 5, 2009
        • I am so very sorry your flame was extinguished too early



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          Theresa Simmons wrote Jan 20, 2009
        • Im overwelmed,no word.im broken.



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