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  • 8 Signs You Need New Friends

    4 posts, 3 voices, 3341 views, started Oct 6, 2011

    Posted on Thursday, October 6, 2011 by Denise Richardson




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      They Forgot About You  

      If you helped them celebrate their birthdays and got them a gift and you didn't even hear from them – Facebook wall posts don't count — on yours, there's a problem. "I'm not good with dates" isn't a good excuse. That's what apps were made for.

      They're Hurting Your Pockets  

      If keeping up with your friend's social schedules has become too costly for your budget that's not a good sign. Friendship is priceless and should never hurt your pockets.

      They're Cancel Queens  

      How many times should you have to reschedule dinner? If you need an appointment to spend time with your friends, one of you isn't making time for the other anymore. Friendship should come easy.

      They Won't Pick Up the Phone  

      Real friends have more to each other than one text message or IM can hold. If the last time you heard their voices was over a week ago, there could be too much distance between you.

      They Have No Shame  

      Don't be fooled, it's not okay to date a close friend's ex. If you catch your girlfriend flirting with yours, she doesn't respect your feelings.

      They're Haters  

      If you don't expect to get a compliment from your friend because "that's just not her", you're "just full of it". A true friend wouldn't be uncomfortably giving compliments and shouldn't need coaxing to want to show you some love.

      They Bring You Down  

      If you have to avoid the girls to get things done and meet your goals, their presence in your life could be toxic. It's one thing to need some time off to "do you" and it's another thing to feel like the women in your circle don't share your drive or ambitions. An awesome friend will want you to succeed.

      They Have Selective Hearing  

      You know the situation: You stay up late listening to her go on and on and on about the same problems all the time, but the one time you decide to call her up and pour your heart, she can't be bothered to stop surfing Facebook while she listens.





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          Denise Richardson wrote Oct 6, 2011
        • ohhhhWOW! now I see why I got rid of several people in my circle, and now I’m a much happier person lol.happy



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          Brimstone1968 wrote Oct 6, 2011
        • I have a “friend” right now that does the selective hearing stuff.  I call her most times, sometimes I will end the conversation by saying “I will call you later“.  I may have gotten busy and did not call back and she will never call back unless I call and then when I confront her about it on several occassions she will say “well you said you were going to call back“.  Right now I am tired of it and have not spoken to her in weeks because of the same issue.  My dad has been ill, she knows, he has since passed and I have not heard from her.  Anyhow, when she have issues with hubbie she calls 1,2,3 times per week.  I think reading this post makes it final for me.  Thanks for posting.



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          Denise Richardson wrote Oct 9, 2011
        • heart Hi Brimstone, sometimes we have to do what we have to do.



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