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  • Am I Alienating Myself Or.....?

    6 posts, 5 voices, 1455 views, started Jul 20, 2011

    Posted on Wednesday, July 20, 2011 by Denise Richardson

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      ....is it that I’m just truly becoming a person who has  ZERO TOLERANCE for other people’s bull-crap? Ladies excuse my language and let me explain. Ok I got an email the other day from a friend of a ex-friend well from the ex-friends sister-inlaw, she and I met through the ex-friend some years ago and has always been coridal to one another whenever we came in contact which would mostly be through the ex-friend in a casual setting like have a girls night out type thing.

      Ok well the sister-inlaw and I have become somewhat friends over the course of a few years seeing we both have some of the same things in common, mainly church and our spiritual connections. And she has called upon me for prayer for her personal issues in her life as well as shared a lot of her personal business with me, so I see she does consider me a friend to have confided in me in that way. Well she sent me this email asking me to come hear her minister this Sunday and also in the letter she tells me of her sister inlaws latest fiasco, she was a postal worker and has since lost her job, and she is the very same one who is dating a friend of my hubby’s I have posted about that in a past blog and they both are still legally married to other people and play games, ok if you want to hear the drama in that you’ll have to search out the blogs, ok moving on well he is a factory worker for Ford Motor Company and makes ok money he’s been there over 30 years so you see they both are overly mature enough to know better in what their doing but to each their own, ok so the sister inlaw tells me in the email,

      that he has since moved in with her, he had his own apartment that my hubby helped him get as well as helped him move into the latter part of last year. Ok well seeing how she is, she has suckered him into leaving his place and move in with her so she can get and control his money, now mind you she still allows her legal husband access into her apartment because of the two young daughter she has with him and they still have sex with each other. Poor girls talk about going to be confused. Also the guy has a wife in Detroit with two small kids as well and he is still seeing her and paying her cash money weekly for child support as well as assisting her with her own personal needs, sounds like the two women are pimping him big time, what a dummy lol.

      Well again like I said to each their own, but I want no parts of their drama, people die everyday over stupdity and this one is tops in my opinion! So I personally chose to alienate myself from her and all that surrounds her. I have zero tolerance for stupidity and self-inflicted pain.
      I have noticed that over the years I have weeded out those who seem to me to carry bad karma around with them so I made the concious decision to remove them from my circle of friends. I have found that for the most part a lot of them were just that bad karma and since removing those people away from me it seems I can think more clearer, hear God more clearer and can receive the meaning of the dreams and visions that God has been giving me lately.  

      WOW this is a trip! Then I had to think to myself maybe God was trying to tell me something the whole time and I just couldn’t grasp it because of all the negative energy around me. I feel like God is trying to show me some things in the spirit about people and places, but in order for me to grasp what He is saying I need to be alienated for a bit to be sat aside for a time for Him and His purpose. Maybe its not me doing the alienation it could be God Himself, because it is happening so fast and without warning, sometimes God will remove things and people out of our lives for a cause, all I can say is Lord have your way, because if it wasn’t good for me in the first place it shouldn’t have been there in the second place lol.  

      I have also noticed how my need for privacy and quiet times have become more important to me as well where as before it wasn’t a huge deal, well it is now! Well the privacy always was, but the quite times wasn’t a huge issue. I guess I need time out to hear God more and to reflect on the things he has given me spiritually more so now than ever. After weeding out all the bad I can see for the most part those who areleft in my circle are there for a reason and will play a part in whatever god has instore for me. So we’ll just have to wait and see how it all pans out, God is in control.happyheartheartheartheartheart



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • OK, this is truly conformation for me as I signed off after posting this I doubled checked my email before signing off and I get Spirit of Prophecy Bulletins in my email box daily and this is for today talk about confirming things wow!

          Spirit of Prophecy Bulletin
          SMALL STRAWS IN A SOFT WIND by Marsha Burns -- 7/20/11:  

          You have continued to progress in spiritual maturity, but you will be tempted to try to go back to old places and re-establish old associations. Doing that will not produce what you had hoped for and will only cause a greater sense of separation from the past than before. Beloved, you do not need more disappointment. You must press on and continue to move higher in My kingdom and stay focused on what is important eternally. Not doing that will cost you more than you are willing to pay in terms of setbacks, says the Lord.  

          Isaiah 40:31 But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.



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          Cheekymonkey wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • Neicy, stay as far as you can from that and them. Just the fact she is basically a whore I’m sorry is enough negative energy to exhaust you. Especially since it’s like no problem with them this is a person you just want to shake and say WTF to pardon me... All I think about is her kids the adults get whatever comes their way but those kids that have to be so confused and the effect long term this will have on them. Makes me so mad. Pray for the kids and run.
          Love
          Cris



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          UK Girl wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • I think it’s something we all have to do to remove the toxic negative energy as we all know if they are not draining you with their drama they will drain others s- just enjoy your own quiet time and rest up you don’t need someone else’s drama



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • heartThank you ladies, I don’t have to be told twice about these kinds of people and situations.estaticheart



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