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  • Are You Woman Enough?

    3 posts, 3 voices, 557 views, started Aug 25, 2009

    Posted on Tuesday, August 25, 2009 by Mz. Queen

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    • I try not to gloat or say I told you so. Sometimes I wish I was just wrong, but more often than not things happen like I predict. I dislike dissension, degrading and strife.  

      I wish that when someone dislikes me or something I’ve said that they would be woman enough to talk to me about it. Even better than that I wish I was woman enough not to let it bother me. Peoples perceptions and misunderstandings can lead them astray and cause them to miss out on some of the best of life and friends.



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          Angela 'Cocco' Williams wrote Aug 25, 2009
        • I agree 47. Truth is that some women are not women enough. I believe it is because they dont know how to be. It can get scary for people when they are allowing their own jealousies and issues effect their vision and disposition.  Most would rather throw sticks and stones then to just sit down with controlled emotions and talk about the issues. I personally try very hard everyday to not let my emotions get the best of me. I try to put them on the back burner and figure things out if I can. I like to go directly to the source because that is the root. I dont like second hand information and I do feel like if someone has something to say to me or feel like I have done something to them, they should come to me and get it fixed. Sadly many things happen to us and they just stay in limbo because one of the parties is not willing to be transparent and real about their feeling and that just has to be okay. I have resolved that people will be people and as for me. I let it roll off of my back because if they are not willing to take care of the offense or be honest with themselves then obviously its not really me with the problem. It is them. We all have to be willing to be transparent and real with one another because that is how we build real lasting relationships and sisterhood.  Blessings



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          Lazylola wrote Sep 25, 2009
        • immaturity, it’s out there...when it’s in the workplace or even a group of friends there usually is the one person in the group that will act like an asshat, immaturity, jealousy and insecurity, so you are doing something right and they are threatened by you in one way or another. I chose to take it as a compliment in my mind when it happens to me, doesn’t make it easier...



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