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  • Be Fabulous at 40 and Beyond!

    1 posts, 1 voices, 502 views, started Dec 14, 2008

    Posted on Sunday, December 14, 2008 by Daphne


    • Carnelian

      Another article I stumbled across...

      In your fabulous 40s, you still feel invincible—these are great years, after all. But subtle changes are occurring that need to be addressed before they become problems. Here are some of the most common health shifts that women experience:
      Metabolism : Slowing by 2 percent per decade.
      Muscle : Down by six to seven pounds from 10 years ago.
      Bone : Dropping by about 1 percent a year since your mid-30s.
      Libido : Declining because of high stress levels and hormonal changes.
      Stress : Especially high because of worries about kids, parents, health, career and finances.
      Depression : More likely now than later in life.

      Establish the following eight preventative habits now, and you’ll not only counter these changes—you’ll stay healthier, sharper, more energetic and more fulfilled for years to come.

      Eat breakfast every day  

      Nutritionists agree that eating breakfast is essential to keeping weight down and calorie-burning metabolism up. In a new study, women who ate a big breakfast lost 21 percent of their body weight after eight months, compared with 4.5 percent for women on a low-carb diet who made breakfast their smallest meal. The healthy-breakfast eaters continued losing over time even though they ate more total calories, while the low-carb group started regaining weight after four months. Reason: A solid meal at the start of the day works in concert with metabolism, which is highest in the morning, fueling activity and preventing cravings that arise when blood sugar drops.

      Jump-start your metabolism  

      Strength-training for six months can increase your resting metabolism (a study on men showed a boost of 7 percent), so you’ll burn more calories even when you‘re sitting on the sofa. Bonus: Strength-training also helps you shore up bone, maintain balance and avoid injury—important for protecting your skeleton both now and when you‘re older. Aim to exercise at least 30 minutes most days of the week. For tips and information on getting started, check out “Physical Activity for Everyone” at the CDC Web site:

      Get more calcium and vitamin D  

      Both are essential for strong bones, but many experts feel current benchmarks are too low. The National Osteoporosis Foundation recommends that women in their 40s get 1,000 mg of calcium and 400 to 800 IU of vitamin D every day from foods like fortified milk or salmon, along with supplements if needed. Some nutrition experts suggest getting up to 1,000 IU a day for optimal health.

      Calm stress with a breath  

      A healthy, calm heart beats faster when you breathe in, slower when you breathe out. But stress inhibits this natural “heart rate variability,” triggering unhealthy changes bodywide, including increased blood pressure, less energy to the brain, lower libido and faster cell death. “In effect, stress makes you age faster,” says Claire Michaels Wheeler, M.D., Ph.D.,, and author of “10 Simple Solutions to Stress.” To get your heart into a healthier rhythm, breathe in through your nose for four beats and out for eight at least twice a day or anytime you feel pressure. “That activates the Vagus nerve that runs from the brain to the pelvis, relaxing the heart, muscles, airways, gastrointestinal tract and blood vessels,” says Wheeler.

      Eat more protein  

      Getting foods with all the amino acids needed to form complete proteins at least twice a day boosts levels of mood-lifting neurotransmitters in the brain, which can help relieve symptoms of depression, like slow thinking and poor memory. Aim for four ounces of protein at each meal. Good sources include fish, eggs and quinoa. But don’t totally skip carbs: They boost mood by increasing production of serotonin in the brain.

      Be adventurous with your partner  

      Try something new—and not just in the bedroom. “When you fall in love, dopamine centers in the brain fire like crazy, and the same thing happens when you do something different and adventurous,” says Laura Berman, Ph.D., director of the Berman Center, a sex therapy clinic in Chicago. “Activities like ballroom dancing or traveling to a new vacation spot promote bonding and stimulate the libido.” The same goes for spicy play with sex toys. One device on the center’s Web site features a pair of lacy panties with a built-in contoured vibrator that you or your partner can secretly trigger with a remote at boring cocktail parties. A survey conducted by the Berman Center found that women who use sex toys (mostly in relationships) had more interest in sex, greater arousal, easier orgasms and less pain during intercourse.

      Go out with girlfriends at least once a week  

      Relaxing with friends reduces stress, boosts self-esteem and even makes you more loving toward your partner when you get home. “Women are terrific at connecting socially but often let it fall by the wayside in their 40s because of career and family demands,” says Edward Schneider, M.D., emeritus dean and professor of gerontology and medicine at the University of Southern California’s Andrus Gerontology Center. Women with extensive social networks through family, work, volunteer organizations, religious groups or hobbies have lower blood pressure, less diabetes, reduced risk of heart disease and half as many strokes as women who are less well-connected.

      Get Essential Check-Ups  

      In addition to making health-boosting, stress-busting habits a part of your lifestyle, don’t neglect these routine tests:  

      Eye exam : Every two to four years
      Blood pressure : Every two years
      Pap test and pelvic exam : Every one to three years
      Thyroid : Every five years
      Mole check : Every year
      Mammogram : Every one to two years
      Blood glucose : Every three years starting at age 45


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