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  • Checklist

    6 posts, 6 voices, 1295 views, started Apr 13, 2009

    Posted on Monday, April 13, 2009 by Fraz764

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      Ladies,

      Do you have a Man Checklist? I do, the reason for this is because I will not accept the junk in my life that I did in the past. I can admit that some of the problems in my relationships wre because I was just to easygoing and tryed to please him instead of myself.  

      My list is pretty long..but here are the first few:

      *He absolutely must be a Christian-not just a church-goer, but an I love the Lord with all my heart soul and mind Christian.

      *He must be gentle and kind

      *He must be secure with himself

      Anyone else care to share/comment?



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          UK Girl wrote Apr 13, 2009
        • I suppose my would be “be is own man” not someone with hangs ups and insecure ..... had enough of that



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          Alba Diaz wrote Apr 13, 2009
        • Wow, I can sense that you must have given up a lot of yourself in the past.  The good news is that because of that past you’ve evolved into a better and stronger you. For me, more than religion, security and gentleness, what is high on my list that the man in my life compliment the woman that I am.  

          democraticgirl2



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Apr 13, 2009
        • I used to have several...

          it was “Blonde hair blue eyes” a must (after an oriental husband)... then I changed to “1st. love God; 2nd love me; 3rd love my son” ... I think I got it.



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          Stephanie Lawrence wrote Apr 13, 2009
        • He has to love GOD
          he must be confident
          he has to be sweet and sincere
          hardworking
          trustworthy
          goodlooking
          and last(but certainly not least), he must love me with all his heart,mind, body and soul



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          Mz. Queen wrote Jul 19, 2009
        • I feel you and my list is a combination of all the things listed and a twist.  

          God
          Self love
          Me
          My children.

          He needs to be stable as in work, where he lives.
          He needs his own transportation,(reliable). I would like him to have some type of formal education be it college or trade school.

          In essence I suffer to say he must be a lot like me in character and personality, I don’t think I’m asking to much.



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