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  • Dating some one younger...

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    27 posts, 18 voices, 1412 views, started Apr 8, 2011

    Posted on Friday, April 8, 2011 by Kristie Robinson




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      Good morning! here is a question that has been on my mind for a while now....

      there is the Man he’s 30 years old  and we have really hit it off, we have so much in common and chat when he isn’t busy lol.. is that to young or what, i hear people say that it is but yet isn’t that just a # and shouldn’t matter? so here i am taking it slow and just really want to be friends and if something comes out of this then YAY!
      so i guess my question is that is that to young for a soon to be 40 year old woman? ohhhh

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          Vikki Hall wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • Ditto what Melissa said!!!



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          UK Girl wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • go for it heart



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          Tuliplady wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • Look at it this way, if you‘re not quite 40, that means your both in your thirties.

          Go for it!  Age is really not all that relevant.



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          Vikki Hall wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • I like the energy of the youth!



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          Kristie Robinson wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • thank you for all your support! i send him coffee Gif's in the mornings and get smilies back and this morning is his 30th birthday so i sent him a B day Gif and got a very pormissing responce back! i don't know how many of you ladies belive in Reincarnation , but there has been a pull between the 2 of us ever since he told my daughter that he would adopt our 1 year old Nubain Goat Tosh, the energy is so strong and feels so familer to me... i am going to go for it just take it slow and steady seems to be working estatic anymore tips would be great!
          Bright blessings !



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          Cathie Beck wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • No tips from me Kristie, but I think you should enjoy, enjoy and enjoy! ;oD  

          Cathie



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          Tuliplady wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • Annie, a Nubian goat is a breed of goat.  I’m guessing Tosh is the goat’s name.

          I’m with Cathie, Enjoy!



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          VICKY CORYEA wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • I have been seeing someone who is 13 years younger than me.........we NEVER run out of stuff to talk about...have daily calls and texts...........I think we need to get rid of the age stigma..........after all...men have been doing this for years!!!    enjoy!!

          ps....its been about 5 years for us



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          Kristie Robinson wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • Tosh is a Goat and Nubain is the Breed of Goat he is :) it was like as soon as he posted and it was like a nano second after my daughter posted about seeing if some one could take him for us, it was like being hit with a brick lol, i spent some many life times pushing him away for one stupid reason or another or i died to soon... so here we are in this life time and this time i am not giving him up or going to push him away! taking it slow and steady :)  

          blessed be!



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          Linda L wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • I agree with all the ladies!  Age doesn’t matter at all, if you both connect then go for it.  I wouldn’t mind if a younger man was interested in me.



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          Mysticalpatterns wrote Apr 8, 2011
        • After thirty I think with couples age is just a number.  More importantly if you are looking at this for a LTR take the time to find out what his future goals are and are they in line with yours.  This shows much more vision about what your future holds together.  

          But then again perhaps you are not looking at the Long term and just interested in enjoying the time you have together regardless of how it works out.  If that is the case... Just Have Fun... don’t worry about age or what anyone else thinks!!! happy



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          Kristie Robinson wrote Apr 13, 2011
        • i don’t get it... my own mother is telling me that i don’t stand a chance, hurts my feelings like i am not pretty enough, to attract some one like him.... it just hurts real bad and i just got rid of a jack ass that told me that for the last 4 years till i got fed up and left.... tbh i think i have a lot to offer and if it goes that way YAY for me and if not and we end up just friends YAY for me! just sick of ppl telling me that i am not good enough or i don’t stand a chance.... is there something wrong with me that they see and i don’t?



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          Cathie Beck wrote Apr 14, 2011
        • I doubt it, Kristie. What I mean, I doubt that you are unrealistic about yourself. And just ignore what your mother said, it may be coming from her own insecurities and self worth.
          Hey, my mother told me that I couldn’t buy a new car... it was too much responsibility for me and I already Had the car. LOL, and she told me I couldn’t handle a office manager job too after I was doing it for months. It was just her... she couldn’t see herself doing it so it was in her mind that I couldn’t.  

          And I’m sure you do have a lot to offer! It’s not like he’s 20 years your junior, he’s not that much younger than you in my eyes. ;oD  

          Cathie



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          Saylor101 wrote Apr 14, 2011
        • Annie - You are a crack up!
          Vickie - Amen

          Kristie- You Do What Is Good For YOU.  Is this a life-time situations - WHO KNOWS?  But it would be the same answer if he were 25, 35, 40, 45, 50 - you get the drift here.

          I always dated “old” when I was young - and now I’m “old” and dating YOUNG.  The past 2 years i’ve had a relationship with a MUCH younger - MUCH - man and for the most part it’s been Awesome.

          The troubles we’ve gone through were rarely based on the age diference - they were your normal personality issues - the “oh wow, I had No idea you felt (thought, believed) that way about that” ...  

          I believe much of ones outlook & maturity levels come from life experience . . .  

          Can you have a Great Conversation?  A decent Debate?  Heartfelt Moments?  Can you Trust him with your thoughts, feelings, heart, home?  What’s age got to do with it at that point?  

          Once the software for WII (fit) told me I was 87 (okay that is WAY embarrasing!) and the DSI (brainage happy told me I was 23 (I can go either way with that one!) - So - I’m just saying - REALLY - THERE‘S PLENTY OF WAYS TO DETERMINE “AGE” ASIDE FROM THE CALENDAR!  happy

          XO



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          Jenz ~ wrote Apr 14, 2011
        • No way! Go for it!
          Mine’s 4 yrs younger than me! estatic Go have some fun! estatic



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          Cathie Beck wrote Apr 14, 2011
        • I’m with Saylor on this. ;oD  

          Cathie



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          Kerri1985 wrote Apr 14, 2011
        • Kristie,

          I have dating younger and it didn’t workout, but I figure it is really the person not the age of the person and if you like him and he likes you and there is a lot in common then do what feels right for you. I think when we begin to ask others it clouds our judgement go with what’s inside you. Taking chances is what life’s about and if we don’t take that chance then we will never know, right?



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