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  • Deny Yourself Pt.2

    1 posts, 1 voices, 296 views, started May 20, 2009

    Posted on Wednesday, May 20, 2009 by Denise Richardson


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      Deny Yourself, Pt. 2

      Mark 8:34 And when he had called the people unto him with his disciples also,
      he said unto them, Whosoever will come after me, let him deny himself, and
      take up his cross, and follow me.  

      Self promotion is the opposite of self denial. When you fight to be seen or to
      be known, you forfeit the promotion of God and chose your own means of
      exalting yourself and therefore, you become responsible for maintaining your
      image. In other words, when a person chooses to make their own way, God
      chooses to let them. And then you become your own source and must depend
      upon chance, luck, circumstance, and networking to achieve your goals rather
      than depending on God to make a way for you to be successful and excel. Don’t
      get me wrong, I am not saying that we should not prepare for success by
      studying, schooling, learning, and becoming skilled at our abilities and
      but we should only work towards those things that God has spoken to us about,
      and not just decide to do something, get out there doing it, and never getting
      opinion about it.

      Here is what I’m trying to tell you. God has a plan for you and his plan will
      be pleasing to you. But the key is to deny what you feel you want out of life,
      and open yourself up to hearing and receiving direction from God. God will not
      anyone that will not follow him. He will not speak to anyone that will not
      listen to him
      and he will not waste time on anyone that is self focused and wants their own
      Being seen, known, and having your name made great are selfish motives and God
      is not in it. When you follow God, you must deny your flesh, say no to your own
      and purify your motives. Remember, there are 2 ways to do everything. Your way
      or God’s way. The way you choose will decide who you will serve. When you choose
      your own way, you become a slave to your agenda and a servant to your own will.
      Thus, you become your own master and God says you cannot serve 2 masters,
      but you will hate one or the other right? So, when it’s self that masters you,
      you are not mastered by God. But if you choose God’s plan for your life, then
      choose him as your master and can be led by him. In order to do that, you must
      yourself. You must say no to what you want and say yes to what God wants. Then,
      it no longer is about you! Your prayers will change from “God give me this, give
      that” to “God, what can I give you?” Your desires will change from “My season,
      harvest, my favor, my miracle, my breakthrough” to “Your will, not mine! Please
      not me Lord! Follow you, no matter what! You are God, not me!” Can you see what
      I’m saying here? God is ready for us to move out of the attitude of selfishness
      that is
      being taught so prevalently by our TV Superstar preachers that seek to please
      and he is ready for a people that will seek to please him. People that will deny
      own flesh and follow him. People that will stop doing what they want, and start
      seeking what he wants. God is wanting children that will obey and follow his
      not people with their own agenda. To really know God requires that you deny
      yourself because you can’t have his will and your own!

      Suggested Reading: Ex. 15:26, Deut. 11:22, 2Chr. 7:14, Prov. 11:27, Prov. 7:15,
      Matt 6:33


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