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  • does size matter?

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    21 posts, 17 voices, 2241 views, started Apr 2, 2010

    Posted on Friday, April 2, 2010 by Sunshine39




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      I’ve been in a long term relationship with someone who is smaller than avg.  I’ve lost interest over the years due to general problems in our relationship.  I’ve also had 3 kids and felt that things were never same after the first.  Wondering about the future.  With a better relationship and a larger... , will things be better?  How much does size really matter?

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          Rebekah Beneteau wrote Apr 2, 2010
        • I don’t think size matters at all.  Technique is what counts.  Fingers never go soft! In my experience, having small kids is a real sex life killer.  We are often tired, our relationship with our husband becomes all about paying the mortgage and getting the kids to soccer.  Now that my girls are 10 and 16, and I am past 40, my sex life is better than ever.  Oh maybe not as often, but the quality and connection is great.  I am a sensuality coach, and I recommend the books of Steve and Vera Bodansky.  They really explain how to reinvigorate your sex life.



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          Karyn Olson wrote Apr 2, 2010
        • For me I think it is a personal preference...and I think size does matter...estatic



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          Wookiemom09 wrote Apr 2, 2010
        • my first husband was blessed and being my second lover, I realized later his technique was not peak.  We worked on it but my current husband is much better technique and more satisfying overall.



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Apr 2, 2010
        • A good tool is great and a good tool user will make it even better.  Combo is the best - IMHO and I vote for that.



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          Tuliplady wrote Apr 2, 2010
        • I don’t think size matters.  And that’s the voice of experience.  I’ve had big, little and everything in between.  What matters is if they know what they‘re doing.



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          Frannie1964 wrote Apr 2, 2010
        • Size doesn’t matter. I have had big and I have had average. I will tell you that the average guy worked It way better then the big guy. It depends on how they use It and If they know how to use It.



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          Mztracy wrote Apr 2, 2010
        • well, having had small..... small..... size did matter to me! Sorry, but you wanted honest. ohhhh



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          Maria Louise Van Deuson wrote Jun 5, 2010
        • Size definitely doesn’t matter. My hubby is amazing and is average/slightly above average. One of my old boyfriends was HUGE and seriously was the worst lover I ever had. tongue out



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          Mztracy wrote Jun 5, 2010
        • I think the bottom line is, Does it matter to you??



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          Veggie wrote Jun 5, 2010
        • Ohhh, yeah!



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          Cheekymonkey wrote Jul 8, 2010
        • happy  you have to know how to get the best out of it.what pleases you. My husband is very blessed and what worked with his past didn’t for me. Now it is great!! While I’ve had width and small large and width matters most for me and I hit the jackpot with my hubby! !!



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          Lazylola wrote Jul 8, 2010
        • yes, i’ll take big over smallestatic



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jul 9, 2010
        • To be honest, I have had several sizes big, bigger, average, and small. The guy who had the small penis knew how to work it, and knew different techniques to get me off, he was better than all the rest, so I'll say to that "it's not the size of the ship that makes you sea sick, it's the motion of the ocean." Also we as women sometimes have to tell as well as teach a man how to make love to our bodies, there are more ways to get us off other than just penial penetration, you have to get creative as well.

           Best of luck to you.happy



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          Saylor101 wrote Jul 17, 2010
        • What a great conversation - question & all!  

          CHINA DOLL - I love your comment!!  Can you believe I’ve NEVER used toys with a lover or husband?  What a boring life i’ve led ohhhh  But seriously thats another blog!

          ANYHOW- I've only been with one "smaller" guy, and he certainly did perform!  I totally agree from this experience & all i've heard that smaller works harder! But Golly gosh I do love the BIG - not BIGGER (had that once too - well LONGER anyhow - It was okay - - - but in no way a WOW moment!! Anytime we ever did - the only really awesome part of that was that he had to be far enough back that we could really look at eachother - sounds silly - but - nevermind - i can't see anywhere good to go from here!! :)   HAPPY SATURDAY NIGHT!



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Jul 17, 2010
        • Just another thought: too big may make me gag!  So just right for my mouth is a blessing to them. estatic



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          Mysticalpatterns wrote Apr 9, 2011
        • Another old post I thought would be fun to comment on...  

          Size is not the ONLY thing but I prefer thicker (not longer) and believe it or not men CAN change their size (a topic for another time).

          But a guy with a larger size that doesn’t know how to use it or use anything else (mouth, hands) isn’t near as pleasurable as a smaller guy who does!!!  Not to mention that toys come in all shapes & sizes and can really spice up a sex life.

          I’ve been married 20 years and of course we have lulls but in general we are active about a couple times a week.  We just find new things to make it fun & interesting all the time.  Whether it be learning a new technique, watching porn to learn something or make fun of something else, talking & sharing our most personal fantasizes, toys/props whatever keeps it fun & interesting.

          One other comment you made here that I would like to address.  You mentioned never being the same after children... well this is true.  The body does change and can’t be ‘fixed’ per say but let me just share this.  I have had 3 children and was doing the ‘ol kegal crunches all the time to no avail.  Then I read an article about how like any muscle that one needs resistance for the best results.  So I bought a kegal exercise tool (just an inexpensive one) to ‘try’ it out.  In less than a couple of weeks there was a significant difference both in my pleasure & his... Food for thought!estatic



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          Bermie66 wrote Apr 11, 2011
        • Size does matter, but he needs to know how to work it.



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          Saylor101 wrote Jun 5, 2011
        • Well - It’s all how THEY make use of it! happy  

          China - Gagging huh?!   Ya had to go there.. happy



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