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  • Fake People!

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    7 posts, 5 voices, 824 views, started Oct 18, 2010

    Posted on Monday, October 18, 2010 by Denise Richardson




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      Hello people,

      My vent today is about F.A.K.E people. Ok here it is I as well as many of you have a FB (Facebook) account and I have deactivated it so many times because of this very reason trying not to hurt other people's feelings, and what I mean by that is by not accepting their friendship on FB so I would just deactivate my page. Ok I left my 1st church which was my home church about 4 years ago and I haven't looked back. I left due to too much drama as well as the Lord showing me some things in the spirit about the leadership of the church and He (God) as well as myself didn't want me to be a part of such foolishness within the church so God moved me. Ok well now that I am happy where I am and has moved on with my life spiritually as well as naturally here they come, people from my former church wanting to connect with me on FB, now here is the issue I have with this "THEY NEVER, EVER EVEN SPOKE TO ME OR EVEN FELLOWSHIPPED WITH ME WHILE I WAS THERE!!!!" They would walk past me and not even speak, they would turn their heads as though I wasn't even there. Some of them even said a lot of harsh things about me not even knowing me, but now want to befriend me on facebook, I think NOT! The other thing with this is because of my past relationship with the 1st family I know 1st hand how they operate and they use people to spy on other people and have them come back and report things to them about the other people, that didn't sit too well with me either, and besides I'm not going to be a spy for no one. Even now with those same members who are stuck there in bondage I might add are still trying to get a peek into my life so they can go back and report it to the pastor of that church its not that I really care, but why are they so worried about what a former member is doing if they have moved on and is not bothering them or speaking against them? "People get a life!" But what I have found over the years is that some church folk "don't" have lives and they have to live their lives through other peoples lives and that is so sad.
      I refuse to befriend many of those people from my former church because they are FAKE and they really don’t mean me any good they just want to get a glimpse of my life to see what I’m doing and might I add I am NOT one of those people who post their entire life on FB like many people or even all over the internet lol, that is so proposterious to me. Any who this is my issue for the week and I won’t be deactivating it again, and I still refuse to allow them access into my FB life lol.

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          Cheekymonkey wrote Oct 18, 2010
        • heartheart Good for you. You know now that your growing in your faith maybe because they are wicked it was a test. A test to turn evil, mean spirited, disruptive people away and not only did you turn them away but you held your ground in your faith and growth.
          I dont know just a thought I had.lolheart



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          Denise Richardson wrote Oct 19, 2010
        • LOL, thank you Cheeky, well I just know that I don’t need those types of people peering into my life knowing they mean me no good, and I also thought maybe they could have had a change of heart, but then again even if thats so we‘re under two different teachings now and I don’t need the spirit of bondage around me and yes I do pray for them the church as a whole that God will free them from all that they are under and come to the realization that they are being held captive by a seducing spirit.



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          Marya1961 wrote Oct 19, 2010
        • Neicy, there was a point when I was on FB, for such a short time and to be honest I became so bored with it, and to me as I will say often, it is a “Name Game“...too many people are full of themselves and just want to show others, “Look, see how many friends I have.“..it is geared mostly for young people who don’t really care about lasting friendships...that is why I stick with Fab40.heart



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          Cheekymonkey wrote Oct 19, 2010
        • estatic Hi I love fb I only have 21 friends and most of them are family. It keeps me in touvh with them. I have people I know that I dont have on facebook. I think its how you use it and Im sure I not even using it fully but I love it.
          @ annie hi there!
          @niecyestatic



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