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  • Get The Message Already!!!!

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    7 posts, 6 voices, 915 views, started Dec 31, 2011

    Posted on Saturday, December 31, 2011 by Denise Richardson

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      Ok so I have posted a blog about me leaving some things, as well as people behind in 2012. Well this one particular person is definitely going to be left behind, heck I haven’t waited till the stroke of midnight tonight I have already deleted their number out of my phone and has not returned their calls, let alone answered any of them.

      So at what point does one realize that they are no longer important to you or that you have given up on them and their friendship. STOP CALLING!!!!  

      I have tried tirelessly to help this person, have been there for them over, and over, and over but still got the same results, soooooooooooooo I’m done, finished trying I have no more strength left in me to deal with them and their foolishness, I’ve move on.

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          Michelle4167 wrote Jan 4, 2012
        • Hello there neicy, I am new here so i hope you don’t mind but i had a friend of 17 years that pretty much used me any way she could. I decided i needed to let her go as a friend too because i realized she was‘nt my friend after all. i did all the things you have done and like you i got undless calls. Finally i relized what i needed to do and tht was just to tell her face to face how she made me feel and guess what? It changed.It all changed.That was almost 2 years ago and we are better friends than we ever were during that 17 years. Maybe you could try that. Hopefully that could work the same for you .If not at least she/he will know how you feel and you can get some feelings off your chest so to speak and get thenm off your back you know.Good luck.



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          Marya1961 wrote Jan 4, 2012
        • I know the feeling, sometimes you need to unload heavy baggage.estatic



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jan 4, 2012
        • Hi ladies,
          @michelle, I had to go there with them finally and I guess now they got the message lol.



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          Michelle4167 wrote Jan 4, 2012
        • Well good neicy,I understand though.Not something you ever want to do but sometimes have too.Maybe it will make the other person think a little and try to be a better to others .



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          Marion Licchiello wrote Jan 15, 2012
        • I agree 100%...some people are emotional vampires I call them... or energy drainers and if we try to help them over and over again and/or give them advice etc...and it’s always the same old story and they are not doing anything about it - it’s okay to release them from your life because it’s about you being in a healthy place for you.  I had to do this several times in my life.  

          Once in particular... one friend no matter when we spoke it was always and I mean ALWAYS the exact same story...different situation...different names and she never did anything about it so I had to just cut her off after sharing with her many times - if I have to work harder at this than you  then it’s not healthy for me...

          So  good choice. heart



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