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  • Happiness Hour Canceled Due To A Horrible Tragedy.

    50 posts, 47 voices, 1238 views, started Oct 23, 2009

    Posted on Friday, October 23, 2009 by Yana Berlin

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      It is with great sorrow and a heavy heart I woke up this morning to find out that ChinaDoll's son passed away unexpected.  

      There is no words that anyone can say that will ease her pain, however, just the thought that a community of women feel and share her pain might make this horrible time in her life just a bid easier to deal with.

      I encourage you to post your condolences and keep her family in your prayers.

      http://fabulously40.com/fabulously/chinadoll

      Thank you.
      Yana



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          UK Girl wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • China Doll has always played a big part in Fab40 – she is like a butterfly flitting round the site welcoming new members and commenting on blogs and her pictures she posts are legendary – I hope that during this heart wrenching time the love she has shown on her can be fed back to her and she heals and feels strength from our love and prayers.



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          Mztracy wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Oh my darling CD, there are no words to express my sorrow for your loss right now. Just know my thoughts and blessings are with you now!



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          Cynthia Schmidt wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • I just sent her a message. She’s Catholic and so is my family so I’m going to ask my mother to say a novena. My brother is also very tied in to his church and I’ll ask him to bring her name in the rememberences this Sunday. I’ll ask him what else to do, he’s a much better Catholic than I am and knows so much about the workings of the religion.

          Does anyone know if she moved out of her house or if her husband moved out? I have her address but not sure with the divorce if it’s the right one.



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          Leeann wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • My prayers are with you cd .   please call me if and when you need to talk . 512-947-0304 .



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          Vikki Hall wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • CD...I have no words to convey my sorrow for what you are going thru. Just know that there are many of us that love you and will be saying prayers for you.



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          Jacquie6363 wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • My words will never safice nor bring him back to your arms, but please know that my heart breaks for you and the family and that I will continue to lift you and the family up in prayer.



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          Fabulousat40 wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • China Doll - earth has no sorrow that heaven can’t heal. my prayers and condolences to you and your family.



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          Bea Kunz wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Dear CD, you know that you are a child of God, and his promise is that he will never burden us with more than we can bear.

          I know that this means little to us when we are in deep pain, and no pain is deeper than that of having to give up a child from our worldly realm.

          I pray that you can find comfort and strength in knowing your son is free of whatever pain brought him to this action.

          You are in my thoughts and prayers.

          May God hold you in his care during the days and months ahead.

          Bea Kunz



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          Rosalina Soto wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Dear China Doll,
          While the loss of a loved one is never easy, it is most certainly the hardest when they are taken from us too soon.  

          My sincere condolence and deepest sympathy on your loss. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you and your family through this difficult time.

          Sending you lots of light and energy.



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          Stephanie Lawrence wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • China Doll you are in my thoughts and prayers



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          Deb Darby wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Oh Cheria, all I can do is to weep with you right now. I pray, but as the scriptures teach us, the Holy Spirit prays   for  us when we don’t know how. He is the Comforter and very near to the broken hearted. May you genuinely feel His presence in your entire being today and in the days to come. With deepest sorrow. Deb



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          Sheslc4 wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • I am a close friend of China Doll’s and no I don’t come on here much. I thought I would post what I know so far.
          Her parents and husband are with her at her home (not sold yet). Alot of people stopping by to see if she is alright and what they can do to help. I talked with her briefly and through her tears, she asked for prayers of mercy for her son. I have not call yet today but I would assume that they are dealing with the funeral arrangements.
          She is experiencing alot right now with all aspects of her life and I feel very helpless. I wish I could make it all better, but for now all I can do is pray, be her friend and be there when she needs me.
          This website, I know, has been a great support to her and made her life better by each one of your friendships.  Thank you all!!  God Bless!!



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          Bluerose wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • China - I am so sorry.  I wish there was something I could do or say to make everything right for you again.  Please know that all your Fab40 friends love you & are praying for you.



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          Angell Villafañe wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Words can’t even express the hurt I feel for you CD. My heart is breaking for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please take comfort in knowing that God is holding you in his arms and is taking care of your beloved son. He will get you through this. Much love and many blessings to you my friend.

          Angell



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          Alina Bartell wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • China Doll, I hope that we can help you carry at least little bits of pain. Please allow it to be shared and our sympathy and love fill in whatever space you can allow us. My family came close to tragedy two years ago and I can’t tell you how much I understand the torment you must be going through. Your son is very much in my prayers: Catholic prayers and universal ones. As difficult it is to understand the ways, your son is loved very much.



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          Texaslinda wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Oh China Doll,
          Like many others, my heart aches for your loss. I am praying for you and your family.

          blessings,
          Linda



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          Alina Bartell wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • It’s so beautiful, ToniAnn, Thank You.



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          RUTHIE BROWN wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • CD..My thoughts and Prayers are with U..I hope U can pull Strength within yourself right now to cope with such a Loss..



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          Laurie Zieber wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • CD, My heart aches for you and I am without words but I send you love and the promise that I will continue to pray.



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          Jenz ~ wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Dearest Sharia,
          My heart is with you. Please know we are all here for you at ANY time of the day or night. You can call me ANYTIME and PLEASE don’t hesitate if it should cross your mind to do so.
          My very deepest sympathy and sending you a million hugs and prayers.



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          Mary Clark wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Cheria...

          I really do not know what to say. I am truly sorry for your tragic loss.  Just know that you have many people praying for you...praying for your son...and praying for your family.  My deepest sympathies....

          MaryClark



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          Angelcart wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • CD, I am so, so sorry for your loss.  I wished I had words to comfort you.  God bless.......

          Angela



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          Kandykahne 5 wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • CD, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God give you all the strength you need to get through this.



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          Marybeth Pitner wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • CD...I am so sad to hear of your loss, I wish there was something I could do to help ease your pain.  I will pray for your strength.
          You know God only gives us what we can handle.  I will have my minister say a extra prayer for your family on Sunday.frown



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          Myrna Perez wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Dearest Chinadoll,  

          I am so very shocked and so sorry to hear about your son.  I DO know how you feel losing a loved one; it is immensely difficult.  

          You are very dear to us and we are here for you.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  My deepest sympathies and may GOD give you strength to get through this.  

          God Bless,

          Maverick



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          Marie66 wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Chinadoll,

          I was so shocked to hear about your loss.. I am SO SORRY.. You are in my thoughts and prayers.. We are all here for you..May God give you the strength to get you thru this..



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          Rita Madhav wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • I know that there are no words that can comfort or ease the pain that your family is going through right now.  Although I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child, I do know what it is like losing someone that you have unconditional love for.  Please believe that time DOES help.  Keep strong and keep positive.



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          Debbie Mallory wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Chinadoll,

          I am saddened to hear about the loss of your son...please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers to help you through this tragic time.

          Debbie



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          Tuliplady wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Chinadoll,  I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  You and your family will be in my prayers.



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          L J wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • I JUST GOT THE EMAIL ON FACEBOOK!!!!

           AND I SENT CHINA A MESSAGE FROM MY HEART....
          WE ALL LOVE YOU AND WE ARE HERE WITH YOU IN OUR HEARTS!!!

          LOVE, LJ

          FAB FRIENDS FOREVER!!!!frown



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          Jo46 wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • Dear China Doll-  My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. If there is anything we can do, please let us know...  At this moment I am sending you a big “hug” and a prayer.



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          Doreen XoXo wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • I know there are no words to ease the pain you are feeling. I am so very sorry for your loss Cheria.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  

          We are here for you always.



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          Termite wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • CD,
          I can’t imagine the pain you are going through right now. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you the strength to deal with this tragedy my friend.



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          (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • I have npt read all of these but I thank you for all your love, thoughts and prayers.

          Please do not send flowers for I am picking a charity.

          Also please offer mass in his name “andy Wong” for the repose of his soul.  Mother always wants his son to be happy and I pray that he has eternal peace and happiness.



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          Jenz ~ wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • China please feel free to call me anytime honey. It does not matter what time it is.
          A million hugs.
          Jen



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          Bobbi Bacha wrote Oct 23, 2009
        • My blood is just cold today at this news. Ive got chills now while I write this.  China Doll is a very special person.. Ive always enjoyed her comments her jokes and she was always here for everyone on this site.  She adopted this site and made friends with almost every woman here and has touched each of us in special ways.  Losing your only child is the most devastating thing in the world and she was always so upbeat, happy, joyful... Vicki Day described her well a butterfly ... She sent gifts to many at Christmas and she tried so hard to please everyone even those that didnt like her.  Which alway saddened me as she never held any grievances but took on the pain of rejection quite often.  God Be with her and hold her tight and be with her son in the darkness bring her into the light again.  Amen



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          Shopgirl1960 wrote Oct 24, 2009
        • I have been extra busy in my life in the last few months...but there is something that I have learned, and that is there is no better friend than a Fab40 Friend~!
          No matter where you are in your life.... UP or DOWN...they are there to lend you their heart or smile.

          My heart feels a sadness for our dear Chinadoll’s loss that words cannot express.  

          I spoke with her earlier today and what she has written above as to offering up mass for the repose of his soul is of utmost important to her.



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          Moodydee wrote Oct 24, 2009
        • Lord Jesus.....My parents know what you are going through...my brother committed suicide while in the AirForce; he was only 21. He died in Suffolk England. He would have been 40 years old on the 23rd of September!



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          Leadinladytracy wrote Oct 24, 2009
        • China Doll

          Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I pray that God heals your heart and gives you the comfort that only He can give you.

          Take care and God bless you and your family.



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