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  • Here We Go!!!! (a test of forgiveness)

    6 posts, 6 voices, 633 views, started Jul 14, 2010

    Posted on Wednesday, July 14, 2010 by Denise Richardson




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      Ok Ladies, you read my previous post about my friend who dissed me right? Ok as it stated I hadn’t heard anything from him since he and wifey were suppose to be trying to patch things up, weeeeeeeelllllllllllll! He called me last night. Yes he did, trying to plead his case with me looking for sympathy and all because his mom told him that she talked with me and shared things with me about him/wifey. Well he said he was so sorry for up and alienating our friendhip like he did, but he was so confused and messed up in the head because of all the drama with wifey, yeah right!!!

      Well anywho he said that he tried to patch things up with her (which I all ready knew that was the deal) but it didn’t pan out (I knew that too!) Ok so now he is running back to me and his family like a little lost puppy with his tail dragging between his legs (which I knew he was going to do lol). But I am still pissed, and feel I have the right to be, and he even had the gall, the nerve, to tell me I had the right to be pissed off at him, hold up broh, you can’t tell me that looking for me to stroke him for saying it. Well I let him have it, me and his mother.

      I really don’t know how to move forward with him as a friend, we‘re all human and have feelings and my feelings are hurt right now and I have this thing about trust and his trust factor with me is at zero right now I don’t feel I can trust him now. He asked if we could get together and talk things out, not sure if I even want to. My hubby thinks it’ll all be ok in time, but I’m sick of him and his bull crap. He needs to grow up and take responsibilities for his one faults and actions. But anywho time will tell.





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          Linni wrote Jul 14, 2010
        • Neicy, if it were me, id keep going and not look back.. people have been letting him come and go for years, and he just has to know HE HAS TO STOP! maybe in time things will be ok, but for now, keep going...

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          Cheekymonkey wrote Jul 14, 2010
        • heart I sooooo agree and everyone knows I know toxic (sad but true ) from the vibe I get you are a very caring person, with a Kitty side meow, yes I read that. Lol but you are very inspirational to everyone... now do that for you. He is on his own for awhile that might make him appreciate the finer things in life. ..YOU and your friendship. Give it, it’s worth by letting it have space. heartheart



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          Mztracy wrote Jul 14, 2010
        • Forgive and move on.

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          Denise Richardson wrote Jul 14, 2010
        • estaticheartI LOVE YOU LADIES, you all ROCK!!!! thank you all for your support in this and just so you know I have thought long and hard even prayed on it and yes! I am going to move on and leave him where he stands, I am tired and no longer want to keep going on with this drama with him, his family has to keep being there for him, but me on the other hand can move on, and will, thanks ladies.hearthappy



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