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  • HOW DUMB AND STUPID IS THIS????

    5 posts, 4 voices, 942 views, started Nov 28, 2011

    Posted on Monday, November 28, 2011 by Denise Richardson

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      Ok I have a male friend whom I haven’t seen in quite awhile, but recently found out that he had gotten married and has been married for about 5 years now. He and his family and I and my girlfriend who moved to Vegas used to be really close we all used to hang out and party together. Now he has always expressed his feelings towards me, but he never was my cup of tea, but was a great friend to have and be around. He and I reunited last summer I ran into him in the neighborhood where his dad lives because my daughter lives in the same geographical area, we stopped, chatted and exchanged number, but we never really called each other because of out of respect for the spouses in both our lives. He would from time to time send me a text message just to say hey, or something to that nature and I would send a causal hello back, but that was the extent of it.

      I have never met his wife nor he my husband I just didn’t feel the need to because I have moved forward and he is still someone living that life of hanging out an partying, drinking and I’m not! Well here recently he has been texting me about his issues with his wife and his step daughter, the wife’s daughter is 25 yrs. old living with them and is causing much drama in the household and I guess from the sounds of it he and she has never really gotten along, because of her disrespecting ways towards him and her mom. Well he claimed to have been asking his wife to put her foot down with the girl because she is so dis respectful and just plain ole don’t follow house rules, hanging out all night coming home drunk and is also using and selling perscription meds.

      Ok moving on so he has been texting me here lately with these subliminal messages about me! WTH??? Ok so then here yesterday he out right calls me while I’m at work asking me to call him back it was important so when I got a break I called him and he said that his wife saw the text messages he had sent me and she is thinking he and I are having an affair, WTH??? So I said to him why did you even text that sh** to me you know I’m married and why didn’t you clear those messages? Now he expects me to get him out of this mess with his wife, WTH?? Like I told him in my texts back talk to your wife, ask her for those hugs you‘re asking me for, all the things he was saying to me I responded to him with ask your wife so she should know I’m not trying to have any extra activity with him outside of the friendship we always had now if he has some deeper feelings for me even after all these years thats on him, but he better get it right with wify because I have nothing to do with his issues.
      So he texts me this morning asking me what should he do I told him to tell her the truth ain’t SH**!!! going on with us and now he wants me to meet with him and her to recify his sh**! Not gonna happen. I said to him “DID YOU LEARN ANYTHING FROM KWAME KILPATRICK AND MS.BEATTY??? Why don’t men use the brain and the sense God gave them apparently he and she has been having problems in the marriage long before our reconnection, so don’t be putting me in the middle of it so I shared this with my hubby late last night when he got in from work and he said that its not up to me to fix their problem and thats what he gets for texting those messages to me and if he continues he will step in OH BOY!!! well I think I’m going to tell him not to text or call me any more.I guess some men just really can’t handle being friends with women.tongue out



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