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  • I'm Taking Their Advice

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    13 posts, 9 voices, 1078 views, started Sep 18, 2011

    Posted on Sunday, September 18, 2011 by Denise Richardson




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      Ok so one of my old friends from my past reconnected with me through another friend. We had a few luncheon dates and a few evening meet-ups to get re-acquainted. As I have found this person is no longer married and never had kids, but has a decent job and a decent place of residence. Now it seems that she is having man issues, she is not attached to anyone at this current time, but is looking. Since our connection she is seeming to want to cling to me. Now mind you I have a husband as well as a somewhat private life meaning I don’t have a lot of people in my circle nor around my man.  

      Well this person seem to have gotten peed with me because I’m not always ready available when she wants to get together. She called me over the weekend trying to meet up to share some girl talk, but I had other plans and was busy, so she seemed to have gotten an attitude as a matter of fact she did get an attitude, she called me I saw on my cell (3) times and when I realized I missed the calls I tried calling her back when I could, but would get her voice mail so I left a message.

      She in turned tried calling me back again, but I again wasn't available, but again tried calling her back but again missed her. So here we're seeming to be playing phone tag lol, but I figured we'd get together eventually, well last night when I got out of church service, I saw she had called me again and this time she left me a nasty message saying: "You know, I'm tired of trying to hook up with you do me the favor and not call me anymore." ohhhh WTH???? why do I deserve this kind of behavior because I have a life and things to do? So when I got the message my instinct was to call her on it, but then I said no!

      I have left it as she has requested, I have not called her and will not call her because I don’t feel I did anything to cause her to go there with me. So if this were you, how would you feel as well and handle this?

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