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  • In which new direction would I like to head?

    1 posts, 1 voices, 368 views, started Jan 4, 2011

    Posted on Tuesday, January 4, 2011


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      When you're dealing with something that can't be changed, you have choices.

      You can choose to struggle, battle, and cling, and remain stuck—stuck in an unfavorable situation, with negative feelings. Or, you can choose to go with the flow—in other words, you can choose to accept the situation, let go of negative thoughts about it, and open up to a change in direction.

      Is there an area in your life where you're feeling stuck?  Use this awareness as an indicator that it's time to go with the flow—use it as your inner compass to get you moving again in a new and positive direction.

      First ask yourself: Will any amount of thinking, forcing, or coaxing alter my situation? If the answer is no, accept that fact. Without acceptance, you'll continue to fight, resist, and struggle, which will erode your joy and energy. On the other hand, accepting the situation for what it is and choosing to go with the flow will bring tranquility, peace, and lightness.

      Next, ask yourself: Which thoughts and old beliefs do I need to let go of? Let go of any thoughts about the situation that are causing upsetting feelings; such as impatience, jealousy, fear, or anger. One way to do this is to trust that out of every situation, good will come. When you choose to believe that good will come out of every experience, you'll soon discover that perceived obstacles are really blessings in disguise. Sometimes these obstacles serve to nudge you in a new direction—one that will open up your world to magnificent experiences. Sometimes they help you become a stronger, better, and wiser you. Take all the positives you can out of each experience and choose to leave the negative feelings behind.

      Finally, ask yourself: In which new direction would I like to head? It's important to understand that going with the flow doesn't mean you drift aimlessly and allow the tide to determine where in your life you'll end up. It's fulfilling to decide where you want to go and then take the steps to get there.


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