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    5 posts, 5 voices, 869 views, started Jul 20, 2012

    Posted on Friday, July 20, 2012 by Tiger




    • Amethyst
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      i am going crazy here  i caught my husband talking to other woman online  he swore he felt bad and they never met  i wanted to work through it but about 3 days later i lost it and we got into a fight and i hit him  not hard  there were no bruises, i know its wrong but i snapped   am I like the worse person on earth  we are now seperated and i feel what he did was equally bad but he is punishing me??  any advice  or criticism??





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          Tuliplady wrote Jul 20, 2012
        • You‘re both in the wrong and it sounds like you need to find some middle ground to see if you can work things out.  Or maybe if he’s talking to other women and you are fed up enough to hit him, maybe you are better off apart???



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          Vikki Hall wrote Jul 20, 2012
        • You feel bad because you reacted to him talking to another woman online? YOU feel bad???? I’m not a believer of violence but I also don’t believe in idly standing by while my hubz cheats. And yes it is cheating if you “found” out about it vs being well aware.



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          Cynthia Schmidt wrote Jul 20, 2012
        • heartbreak I guess it’s a case of “two wrongs don’t make a right” but I don’t blame you for losing your temper. Maybe after things calm down and you both cool off and have a chance to be apart for a bit you’ll be able to talk about it.



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          Tiger wrote Jul 20, 2012
        • thank you  i really dont want a divorce...ijust dont think that what i did warrants a divorce.  i agree i have an anfer issue...but geez  many many people just divorce on the cheating part alone!  we are seperated till thursday  i have texted called and emailed him asking what it is he wants and he wont respond  i think i am just scared of what i alredy know  thanks for chatting



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