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  • Neicy one special friend at a time

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    14 posts, 12 voices, 977 views, started Jul 20, 2011

    Posted on Wednesday, July 20, 2011 by Cheekymonkey




    • heart Dear Neicy,

      Do you know what a constant comfort you are to me? I’ve never met anyone that can show such grace and tell someone off with as much grace as giving a compliment. I’ve been in awe of your no nonsense never ending belief of who you are and what you will allow in your life.
      I remember lol when I first starting sharing about my illness and the ups and downs daily on that rollercoaster of emotions and boy was I mad as hell at God. Oh lord! It was like I waved a red flag at you and you came charging LMAO!! Boy the discussions back and forth and the angrier and more I dug my heels in about God being absent and wrong the more you charged and they were some long ass posts to me lmao boy were you fired up. You were not giving up on me. I came to realize I’d met my match with someone being as stubborn as me and that made me nervous. Lol
      I remember you said you were going to take it upon yourself to ask God to enter and help me. That you weren’t going to walk away without god being there for me lol
      I remember that was a turning point in the anger around my heart directed at God.
      From that day such a respect has filled my heart for you. You are a lady that isn’t afraid to go ghetto if u need to lmao ( I mean you get down and fight lol)
      You have never judged anyones issues rather it was drugs, marriage problems, loneliness , money ect. Instead I’ve seen you open up your past and your husbands in order so whoever will not feel alone and they can learn from you. You’ve done this in an honest, I own this way that is a strength to your character. I’m amazed sometimes and I sit back and think that’s who I want to be when I grow up lol
      And now that we share letters and cards just to say hi thinking of you I think how far we’ve come. I’m so grateful for the peace you have helped me find and that I’m still not in agreement with God but when you love you don’t have to agree but respect that some choices are never ours to make.
      Your a beautiful strong righteous woman and my friend. You’ve made me stronger and with that strength I’ve been able to live.
      Your compassion for others is your heart and your calling. Make sure you get out there to pass your calling on the world is a much better loving place with you striving for God and love.
      Thank you for not letting me drown. Thank you for making sure I could walk my path so my children still got the best I could offer them.
      I love you,
      Cristen

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          Denise Richardson wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • In all sincerity, sniff sniff I had to wipe away the tears before I could respond to your beautiful letter. Cris my dear only God knows outside of myself how I truly feel about those whom I consider a real friend and I really and truly believe without a shadow of doubt that those of you here who are connected to me here are in fact a true friend to me. It does my heart good to be able to help anyone who is in need of help whether it is a kind word, words of encouragement or what have you I just wish I could reach out and physically hug each of you here.

          You are such a strong person and I commend you on your fight for life. You too have a way with words and they have touched my heart deeply. When I say to any of you that I’m praying for you I do it and mean it with all sincerity, and believe God for your answers as well as the victories. I can’t help who I am because God made me this way and I wouldn’t change anything about myself nor will I take anything for my life journey, I’ll say to you my friend keep on fighting the good fight because it is what it is a fight to live and God is backing you because I’ve asked him to in your honor, I love you more than you’ll ever know and just because we have never met your spirit lives in me we are connected through prayer my friend, and its not over till God says so! Love never fails and my love for you my friend is just that never failing love.heartheartheartheartheart



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • WOW! thank you Eva I’m humbled at the letter as well as the commits from all you ladies, thank you from the bottom of my heart.heartXOXOX



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          UK Girl wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • I have know Neicy from the minute she joined in Dec 2008 I joined in the Oct - Neicy has always been the life blood of this site - posting , joining in and just being there and caring.

          Cris your wonderful post about Neicy sums her up to perfection part of me was laughing and the other part was moved to tears.

          In my eyes Neicy is part angel and part prayer warrior and the person you most certainly need on speed dial when your in a spot of bother as she will so have your back heartheartheart



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • WOW, WOW! UKgirl now you‘re making me cry, Lord knows I truly appreciate all the kind words and the love you ladies have for me all I can say is, this is part of what God has instore for me to do and I’m led by Him and I enjoy what I do and that is make people happy and be a support system to all again whether its a kind word, laughter, prayers, a phone call etc...I’m here for the duration until God say different thank you ladies I’m so full right now ok there goes the tears again lol.heartheartheartheartheartheartheart



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          Cheekymonkey wrote Jul 20, 2011
        • heart thank you God! This is exactly what I wanted when I started this. I want to share my friends one at a time and for others to share them on this person so each of us know how loved and needed we are.
          I’m crying now lol
          Cris



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          Vikki Hall wrote Jul 22, 2011
        • That was a most beautiful and accurate post of Neicy heart

          Cris I love how open your heart is and the words that come tumbling out!



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          Marya1961 wrote Jul 22, 2011
        • Beautiful letter, Cris!heart

          Yes, Neicy, you are a sweetheart and a treasure!heart

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