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  • TELL ME..IF MY HUSBAND LOVES ME OR HATE ME

    10 posts, 8 voices, 738 views, started Nov 17, 2008

    Posted on Monday, November 17, 2008 by SHERRY C

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    • Amethyst
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      I think my husband hates me ..my husband don’t talk to me he just sits in front of his tv and flips channels, goes to the kitchen and goes back to watch tv, he does this whenever he is off from work. He never takes me outside, I dont work and don’t drive, I cant find a job because i can’t work yet, i need to get a work permit. He never do anything with my status, yet he expects me to work and bring money. I had did a lot of odd jobs but can’t really get a real job , i tried to save money but it all goes to my family back home in my country. five years i am separated from my children because i can’t come up to the money i need to process my work permit, and my husband just seemed oblivious of the fact. he never really tried, it is me who did everything. he gets mad when i have no work i know, coz he never talks about me, i always thought husband takes care of the wives that is how i see my father with my mother and his children but i dont think in america that is the case. i wanted to help him in everything but i cant because i don’t have the capacity to do it. if i talk to him he gets mad at me and so i kept quiet, i dont really know how to talk to my husband.  

      do you think he really cares about me? i had a very good job in Dubai and i left Dubai to spend a life of misery as i thought I found the man of my dreams i think i am wrong. now i want to go back but i no longer have the means. am still standing but i am so sad and lonely. and i miss my children terribly.



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          SHERRY C wrote Nov 17, 2008
        • Thank you Teeky3, I am as strong as you can imagine me to be, I dont have anyone, except my ex boss and some really good friends who are away, my boss who believes in me offered to pay for everything and offered me a chance of a life time, am waiting until the 21st that they are going to have a Board of Directors’ meeting, he promised to help me and lets me manage a nurse agency but I am still crossing my fingers. my life is miserable but i pulled through and mix it with prayers , i always think of my children, what will happen to them if something happens to me so when i really feel so deperate i hang to them , they are my rock. they are the reason why am here. i will pull through but i like to share it with you it helps a lot.  

          yes you are right he just doesn’t care. they are not his children and so he really dont feel and understand how hard for a mother to be so away from her children. i hope thing will turn in my side soon..thanks for caring.



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          Linni wrote Nov 17, 2008
        • yes, i agree with teeky! with determination, and a fierce will to get it done, YOU WILL! please keep us updated!
          God Bless
          Linni



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          Bobbi Bacha wrote Nov 17, 2008
        • MrsC, I cant understand why your husband wont help you bring your children here.  Did you apply for citizenship yet ?  If so, I think... Im not an attorney you can bring them to be with you ?  

          Hang in there MRSC.  Id be missing my babies sooo much.

          God bless you, Teeky you said it all.

          PS. if he truely loved you he would want you to be happy and he would do everything to get your children to you.



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          SHERRY C wrote Nov 17, 2008
        • hi girls,

          thanks for caring..it is so much twists and turns , there are lucky ones and i belong to those who are not so lucky in love and the men they chose with. i cant have my citizenship yet ,,i need to have my green card ...and the immigraton fee is so high that i cant afford it for now..how i wish i am luckier to even afford it..thank you..i love this site..i can open up with my feelings and i had never met someone who is rude to me..everybody has a heart of gold..thank you thank you thank you..i have dreams too..i wish one day i will reach the other end of the tunnel

          GOD BLESS YOU ALL..!!!



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          Cynthia Schmidt wrote Nov 17, 2008
        • My heart hurts for you and your situation. Please know that you will find comfort and support here. Please don’t isolate, reach out and be heard here among caring women. In expressing your voice your strength will grow. Your solutions will come.

          I pray for you



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          SHERRY C wrote Nov 17, 2008
        • My husband is not from Dubai he is not Arabic he is an American but of European descent. I am a humble Filipina , they are not his children, they are mine with my previous life (LOL). I am from Philippines, I did have a good life and good education (my parents made sure I have that) , I married early in life, not lucky with it, life moved on ..in Dubai I left my heart it gave me a good outlook in life, the people are amazing. My adventure here was just like a spur of the moment but i met my husband, from just a tourist visa i went to deciding i want to be this man’s wife..i had my wish ..but not everything...thank you for asking and i don’t mind. i dont hide my life, if someone likes you they dont care what you are they like you anyway ..i laugh in my despair and in my loneliness there are friends that i know would lend a shoulder to cry on. “strong women , we pull through“,,,thanks for caring girls..!!!one day all these would be a memory something i can tell my granchildren.am fine and strong..i don’t have self pity i dont dwell on it , i used to keep all these feelings within me except to my friend in Dubai, but these days i decided otherwise..share my life and get some advise and encouragement..it feels good. now i realize there are people who care.i used to be an island before not anymore...i maybe an island still but with a lot of people in it..and i am feelin’ better.



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