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Posted on Saturday, January 10, 2009 by Daphne
I stumbled across this piece today and thought i'd share...
What do you think the panties you wear tell men? Men see panties a lot different than woman. They are not just accessories. It tells a story. Panties convey a message. Am I in the mood? Am I feeling sexy? Do I want you to come and get me? Am I thinking about grocery shopping tomorrow at Sam's Club? Do I just want to go to sleep?
All these questions. And what panties can do is give your man that answer.
Here are some scenarios.
First, do you wear the white satin panties or black satin panties to bed.
You wear white white panties to bed. This is telling your lover several things. The white conveys the innocent look. In our culture that color subconsciously stands for good, pure, or innocent. So while you are sexy you are wearing an article that makes you very feminine and "princess" like. So its up to him to pursue you. The white says innocent but the satin says "come and take it." Its very sexy for men to see. The man gets to be the prince sweeping you off your feet while at the same time you get to maintain your innocent fairy princess look while at the same time saying "I feel sexy" and "make your move."
On the other hand you can wear the black satin panties. They will convey something a little different. The black panties are going to tell your man "I want you" yet "I'm in charge." When you wear black you are the aggressor. The situation has more of a "I'm going to take you" feel to it. Very different yet very sexy nonetheless. You become, for lack of better words, Madonna. Or the his mistress. You are more in control when you wear black.
Red panties are fairly straightforward. They imply you are feeling very sexy and in the mood. There should be no mistake there. If your man sees you in red satin panties walking around the house and keeps watching his football game then its time to go see a marriage counselor.
Pink is not quite the same as red. Its more flirty. It should mean that he's going to have to work for it. Maybe a massage. Maybe him trying to do something romatic. It won't be a for sure thing but if he plays his cards right you are certainly in the right frame of mind.
Here is what Kathryn M. D'Imperios said:
Black: Sexiness, Seduction, Secretive or just plain "I want to get some tonight, baby!"
Red: Passionate, Romantic, Erotic... "I want to be romanced tonight...take my breath away, lover..."
Pink: Delicate, Flirty, Youthful... "You might get some, you might not... but I am yours tonight!"
White: Innocent, Virginal, Pure... "Be gentle with me, and I may have some fun with you!"
Blue: Bold, Strong, Mischievous? ?I?m in control tonight, sexy? wink
Purple: Mysterious... "I like to keep you guessing?I?ll spring you when you least expect it!?
Orange: Playful... "Let's have some fun tonight!"
Green: Anything Goes... "No location is too risky for me!"
Leopard Print: "Rwar, I'm an animal, baby. Let's get wild!"
None: SOMEBODY'S GETTIN' SOME TONIGHT!!!!!
While we don't agree with all she said it certainly is interesting to think about the next time you are picking out a color for your satin panties. The do convey a message, both to yourself and your partner.
At present, I am wearing Brown and they are not satin, so I guess that probably means, None EVER AGAIN, chained, padlocked and threw away the key....LOL
hahaha! I don't even own white panties! No innocence here, I guess!
Blessings,
Coachmombabe
http://www.shilohhomeofhope.org
"Treat others as if they are who they ought to be and you help them to become who they are capable of becoming." Goethe
Me either, Coachmom. And I sleep nude, but that does not ensure my husbands luck on any given day. I just hate nightgowns unless I’m cold.
I have all colours, but I guess, it’s because I am a little anal...oopps, bad choice of words....lol...My panties must be the same color as my clothing. My white panties are to wear with my white blouses, can’t wear with a white dress, as a woman of colour, white panties under a white dress, NO NO....
Well for me panties has NEVER been a part of my sleep attire I could never sleep comfortably in them. And thats not saying hubby gets it every night but he gets it more than enough lol. ; )
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
Okay, Jacquie, so you wear panties under your blouse instead of a bra? LOL! Just teasing!
LOL Ingrid!
I am wearing red today, but I have all colors. Depends on what I am wearing.
And I am with Neicy, can’t sleep with panties on. The coochy has to breath sometimes ladies. LOL
Now, let me ask...
How many of you will use this post as a reference next time you‘re deciding what color to wear or what message you want to send your honey??? LOL
For sure, I will have those thoughts in the back of my mind, especially when I take my shower at nights...LOL
I didnt think the color mattered as much as the style. For sure if I wore black grannie panties the message would shout....leave me the hell alone!!! LMAO
I like my tonga style lace panties. Doesnt matter what color they are. They shout...SEXY!!!
xoxo
most of mine are black....either cotton, satin or silk, but what about those beige or nude colored ones? what do they mean?
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whoo-hoo, Ree! I guess we know what you’ll be doin’ tonight! wink wink ;o)
Blessings,
Coachmombabe
http://www.shilohhomeofhope.org
"Treat others as if they are who they ought to be and you help them to become who they are capable of becoming." Goethe
I have a stupid question for the ladies of color. When I think of “nude” panties they are a light tan. But what color would be considered nude for skin of color?
I told you it was stupid!
Blessings,
Coachmombabe
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"Treat others as if they are who they ought to be and you help them to become who they are capable of becoming." Goethe
its always none - those colours sum up my various states of mood in other clothing too. very exact. i also go by texture of material, feel of material, its flexibility and design.![]()
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Lol! This post was made 3 years ago and my panties have not changed!!!
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