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  • The ghost of the EX is haunting my family...

    8 posts, 5 voices, 843 views, started Nov 18, 2009

    Posted on Wednesday, November 18, 2009

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      I consider myself a very positive and patient person, but sometimes (Even it happened to Jesus) they are people that annoy you to the point... you just have to blast.  I just want to take this out of my chest.  My husbands ex continues till today bothering our happy nest.  I know it is jealousy.   And up to now I had laughed at the face of jealousy.  He has 2 grown children (25, 28 and even grand children) which they love me and a love them a bunch.  Now comes the BIG BUTT.   She requested through child support that my husband owed her money and the government retained the amount from our account.  We filed a case in court, which is under investigation.  We contacted again child support which is separate from the court telling them that the children are emancipated (this is since April/09 we are with this issue), regardless child support gave her the money, which we do not owe.  Now the court says we have to file against child support.  Meanwhile I do have 2 little ones and they are playing with my girls' money.  Ironic but that is the main reason I am in the US and cannot enjoy my Island.  She is like a ghost haunting us over and over again.  I know it is no biggie I just though it was good to get it out of my chest and share it with my friends.  God Bless America!



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          Lisa Middlesworth wrote Nov 18, 2009
        • How can she go in for child support at this point? The children are grown!
          Wow, it still amazes me the lengths some will go to just to make others miserable.
          Somebody needs to put this ghost in her place.
          Sorry you‘re having to deal with this situation.



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          Lisa Middlesworth wrote Nov 18, 2009
        • Thank goodness, everyone has to confront all the wrongs they have done one day.
          God and great friends will get thru anythingestatic
          I wish you all the luck in the world in getting this put behind you so you and your family can move forward.estatic



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          Martha Perez Torres wrote Nov 19, 2009
        • WOW! I empathyze with you- I am in a similar situation only that my husband’s child is 12. His mother is constantly calling my husband and complaining and nagging. It seems to me that if she was not able to handle another child why get pregnant-to tie the man down to you. This is a sore point with me since I have three kids and I handle my business when it comes to our kids. She is constantly calling. He is a very responsible man when it comes to this child but she uses the kid to manipulate him. The way I see it she also uses the kid for her own financial gain. I agree with you God will put her in her place. Just think positives thoughts and place the situation in Gods hands.



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          UK Girl wrote Nov 19, 2009
        • Sorry your going through this - I think she will get her come uppance



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