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  • The Judgmental Tonge have you experience it?

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    3 posts, 3 voices, 718 views, started Jun 15, 2009

    Posted on Monday, June 15, 2009 by Dalia Spurgeon


    • Amethyst

      I have.   Sometimes our own that should love us first like family and friends, I am a Spanish woman 5.0 tall. I am high energy and very much a touch person the 3 foot personal space rule does not come easy to me, I like to hug and kiss I don’t believe in hand shakes for me that for a business associates and do not apply to my friends and family as a newly wed I came to the United States young my hubby was in the military so we travel a lot and believe it or not must cultures I encounter in Europe and elsewhere also were open and inviting people.  However I did get my little feeling hurt by many people that do not use such degree of love and acceptance. I credit this to my upbringing my family is form of many nationalities and many ethnic backgrounds so growing up there was always someone who did not look the same or did not spoke the same language.   But I try not to have my heart harden by comments or attitudes because I believe in God and I believe Matthew 7:1-2 Do not judge, or you too will be judged.  For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged.   We are all made in the image and likeness of GOD.
      I too have to make amends and not judge other hastily their harden exterior my be due to hard upbringing.    


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          Denise Richardson wrote Jun 15, 2009
        • Wow! this was good that you shared this with us I too am a touchy feeling kind of person who is very affectionate, I believe in greeting my family members and friends with a hug and kiss too, but unfortunately there are so many in the world who don’t share yours and my same view on this matter, but as you grow in Christ he will show you how to accept and deal with people so allow him to teach you to move forward without the hurt or the judgement on others, be blessed my friend.happy

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          Magali17 wrote Jun 16, 2009
        • Don’t change...Be who you are without hesitation...The Lord knows your heart and will reward you accordingly...

          Love others always!!!


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