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  • The Writing Has Been On The Wall

    6 posts, 6 voices, 647 views, started Jan 19, 2013

    Posted on Saturday, January 19, 2013 by Denise Richardson

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      Ok here it is, my old school girlfriend whom I see from time to time called me the other day with more of her daily drama. 1st of all we‘re too damn old to be this freakin’ dumb and stupid. Ok she has been dealing with loser a$$ dude for 17+years and believe you me, IT‘S ONLY because of his penis ok? He has no job, living from her house to the house he was released to when he got out of prison he is on probation and is a felon. He never has any money unless she or the other women, yes (women) give it to him. Well she called to say that she thinks he and this tramp she and I also grew up with is having an affair. 2nd of all in order for an affair to take place in my opinion you have to be solely committed to one person, he is everybody and anybody’s man. Ok so says the tramp has been calling his phone, they call each other, she sent a text message to his phone and she saw it. 3rdly why do they have each others numbers? Why do they need to be calling one another?  

      She shared with me that some years ago this same woman had oral sex with him, ok so why are you acting dumb to the fact that they could be still messing around? Everybody in her circle has told her this sorry a$$ piece of a man ain’t no good and the tramp ain’t her friend. I personally never ever cared for the tramp growing up as kids she was alway a trip and mouthy I guess her mouth paid off in his eyes lol. Ok but anyhow, she is getting on my nerves about the whole scenario because I’ve told her if not a thousand times to leave them both alone Nd move on, but she calls this heifer her friend so sad. The only thing he has to offer is what’s between his legs and they are whipped by it. SMHworried these are overly grown women 53 years old fighting over a broke a$$ pimp. I told her the truth because if I wasn’t a true friend, loved her and want to see her do better and receive better I wouldn’t say anything, but only she can choose to change or keep dealing with the bull-sh**.  

       I’m in awe at how dumb and stupid some women are over these loser a$$ men. He sleeps around and they settle, he fills there heads with all these lies and they believe him, talk about no self esteem or self worth. It’s so sad to be in that place. I personally don’t care for him, but it’s her man I did explain to her the reason why I don’t visit her and its all because of him,  

      I can’t sit amongst people whom I know is low down skinning and grinning I. My face when I know what you‘re about and at times it’s hard for me to hold my peace especially with this punk. So I keep my distance and too because she is just sorry and I don’t roll like that, never have and never will. Love her but she is just sad.



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          Mzd3 wrote Jan 19, 2013
        • She definitely needs to move on....



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          Tuliplady wrote Jan 19, 2013
        • It’s so sad that women are willing to settle for that kind of life.  heartbreak  It’s that much sadder when it is our friends and we have to watch it.



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          Vikki Hall wrote Jan 19, 2013
        • Oh Neicy way too much drama at our age. I would tell her to move on from him but I’m sure you have. Her self worth and confidence must be completely gone for her to put up with all that.

          So for your sake I say say prayers but move on from the friendship heartbreak



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          Marya1961 wrote Jan 19, 2013
        • You would think after being used for so long, it would sink in..but many a woman has been mesmerized by a sweet talkin man, not to mention that you say he uses his wang in a “most special way“.

          Sorry that you have to be the one to listen to the gripes, but if it were me, I would have to be very busy when she calls.



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          Denise Richardson wrote Jan 19, 2013
        • Hi ladies, thanks for reading and replying. Yes it is sad, yes I have told her to move on, yes I have made myself less available to her. And speaking of she texted me a little while ago thanking me for keepin it real with her, well DUHHHH! Do something about your situation I have no time for pitiful people, it will only attach itself to you and bring you down, I’m not letting that happen.



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