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    14 posts, 14 voices, 809 views, started Jan 29, 2010

    Posted on Friday, January 29, 2010 by Pamela61

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      hi im 48 years old and i feel anything but fabulous i work for the co-op, im fat and divorced, my parents are on the verge of splitting up and i have my son and brother living with me!could i be any more of a sad case?

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          Vikki Hall wrote Jan 31, 2010
        • Hi Pamela!

          I’m sorry you are down about your situation currently. Hang out with us and eventually your perspective will change or at least you will have a few laughs along the way.

          Welcome to Fab40estatic



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          Karyn Olson wrote Jan 31, 2010
        • Sorry to hear about the way things are going right now...I think at one time or another we have all been in your shoes...Some of us and made our way out and are on our way to better things...the point I am trying to make is we never have to be alone...many of the women on the site here have leaned on each other for support and encouragement...I know I have...happy



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          Frannie1964 wrote Jan 31, 2010
        • Your not a sad case. Your just someone going thru a rough patch right now, but be here with us and we will be here with you/for youhappy



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          Maryann Rhodey wrote Jan 31, 2010
        • Hi Pamela,

          I’m sorry to hear about the rough time you are dealing with right now.  It’s true that if you continue to hang out here you will be lifted up.  The women here are so wonderful and caring.  Do you have others who you can talk to about how you feel?  What type of activities do you like?  Do you have a chance to get out and walk?  Sometimes just having some time to yourself will help you work on the things you want.  Don’t be too hard on yourself.  You have a lot to deal with.  We‘re here to help so come back often.  There’s always someone here.



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          UK Girl wrote Feb 2, 2010
        • Pamela - sorry your having a bad time but I’m sure when you have a problem you can vent here and lot of wisdom will come your way estatic



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          Msj wrote Feb 11, 2010
        • Hi Pamela!

          Im new here too. I love it - The support is great and the senses of humor come just in time!



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          Jo46 wrote Feb 11, 2010
        • My new mantra is “Keep calm and Carry On“.  (I actually saw it on a poster).  Do something for yourself at least once a day. And don’t be so hard on yourself...by the way, welcome to this site!!!!!



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          Zena Coleman wrote Feb 11, 2010
        • just keep up the good work, it will pass,treat yourself to a spa day or make over. be blessed



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          Cynthia Schmidt wrote Feb 11, 2010
        • Pamela I hope things get better for you soon



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          Ladybug10 wrote Feb 12, 2010
        • welcome pam,you’ve come to the right place..just take one day at a time,write down one thing today that you can change ...like today you want to drink more water tomorrow add to it ...you can do it!estatic,and come here often the girls are great,they have great advice and although some are working hard at losing our waist lines we still have big schoulders...have a great day



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          Mz. Queen wrote Feb 12, 2010
        • @ Ladybug, I like that, “although some are working hard at losing our waist lines we still have big shoulders“.

          Dear Pam,

          My name is msPositive aka 47n aka Donna.  You are a beautiful, sensitive, caring, loving and strong Woman! Not knowing how old your son is, I know you are a great mother and you got to be an awesome sister by any means if your brother is living with you.  

          Say it! I’m fine and divorced. Death to anything hurts for a season. Parents splitting up this late breaks your heart, it’s normal to grieve. You‘re a STRONG Woman. It’s okay to cry, cuss, holler and throw thingstongue out.

          I don’t know what a co op is, but I’m sure there’s a silver lining in there too, if all it is is a means of providing for your household until your change comes.

          Be loving still.

          Donna



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          Marie66 wrote Feb 12, 2010
        • Hi Pamela..   WELCOME!!!
          Sorry that your going thru such a hard time right now.. But hang in there things will get better.. We have all been here for one another and we will be here for you..

          Have a GREAT DAY!!



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