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Posted on Saturday, September 5, 2009 by Mz. Queen
A man's point of view.
Experience has taught me that there are three kinds of women in my life.
First, the critical woman. Basically they‘re users, because they reach for your strength but run from your weakness. When you‘re in trouble they hold you at arm’s length, lest they become tainted by association. Sadly, you’ll find them in the church as well as the world.
Second, there’s the cautious woman. They won’t criticize you, but when you‘re in trouble, they’ll wait to see if you make it through the tunnel, and even when you come out, they’ll wait further to see how others treat you. If it’s safe, they’ll reach for you again. They‘re fair weather women.
Third, is the committed one-a woman who loves at all times. Though she hears the worst, she still believes the best. Others may leave, she stays! When the critics tear you down, and the cautious folks stand silently by, she’ll speak up for you
I’ve gone from being cautious to committed. I like this much better, and so does my hubby! 
Blessings,
Coachmombabe
http://www.shilohhomeofhope.org
"Treat others as if they are who they ought to be and you help them to become who they are capable of becoming." Goethe
I am committed, but I have definetly expereinced the other two in life.
Of the three types I am the committed one. I’m standing by my man until he shows himself unworthy. Right is right and wrong is wrong, there is no gray area even in love and commitment.
I am the committed type and I am sure that at some time in my life years ago (when I was younger) I was the other types. I know some people that are the other types but I try not to associated with them.
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