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  • WHY WHY WHY

    11 posts, 10 voices, 840 views, started Jun 13, 2009

    Posted on Saturday, June 13, 2009 by Skye333

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    • Amethyst
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      I do and do and do for them... Nothing is ever good enough. I am at the end of my rope. I can’t take anymore of the DRAMA with my step children nor the mother. It’s been 11 long years of taking crap from them. I must have harmony in my life.

      If anyone is listening... Please pray for me, it’s all I have left to fight with.



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          Cynthia Schmidt wrote Jun 13, 2009
        • You’ve come to a good place. We can vent here and be who we are. I understand step parenting although I have to confess my situation is better than most. step parenting is truly a thankless job and I pray it gets better for you.



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          Suzanne Sellers wrote Jun 13, 2009
        • OMG - I was just starting the same “vent“.  When I did and did and did for my stepsons, they walked all over me.  I backed off and starting expecting them to do things and they HATED me.  It is slowly getting better and my expectations are understood.  Hang in there.  It’s been 8 years of this for me.



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          Skye333 wrote Jun 13, 2009
        • Suzanne

          The oldest is 23 and she is DRAMA. She fights with everyone that is around her more than a day or so. She changes friends like panties. It’s sad.  If I don’t give her money she goes nuts. Tells me I am nothing but a piece of paper, I’m a bitch, that I can no longer be a part of her daughters life. Wishes I would die, calls me a whore and to top it off she put me on some stupid site called the dirty like 2 months ago. This week she calls crying that she needs 2,000 bucks to catch her house note up.  Hmmm. lets see, do I have stupid written on my forhead.  

          I am getting to the point I am numb



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          Marybeth Pitner wrote Jun 13, 2009
        • Skye.. I feel for you... my stepdaughter is a big DRAMA QUEEN as well.  She calls here crying, needs money, wants to leave her husband etc... then calls back a few hours later and says... never mind everything is OK for now.  This happens every couple of weeks or so.

           My hubby just gets so worked up and I hate to see hime like that.  The other 2 are a whole different story, and his ex is well....there are no words to describe that WITCH!!!!



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          Lilwhitedaisy wrote Aug 23, 2009
        • Okay the kid ISNT a kid..shes 23 and an adult with her own life..you DO NOT have to be treated this way, and dont give her money! it is wrong that she uses her child as a pawn..to get to you. Hold your head up HIGHER..let her go.she will grow up sooner or later and realise who was there for her . let her go ..save your sanity.



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          Lilwhitedaisy wrote Aug 23, 2009
        • yes i am curious about that too, how does he feel about his daughter doing this to you his WIFE. There is loving our kids with all our hearts BUT our spouses should come first and should be where the loyalty lies. Except in cases of abuse etc..then it lays with your kids.



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          Angelcart wrote Dec 10, 2009
        • Skye that is totally unacceptable!!!  My husbands daughter rarely ever say’s “hello” when she walks in the house, she say’s “where’s my dad?”  I’m like “well hello to you to“.  She is 20.  When she moved in with her mother at age 18 she left her room a friggin pig stye!  I couldn’t take that crap so I pulled every damn poster off the ceiling (yes ceiling) and walls and put all her crap in a bag.  Took me forever to spackle and paint the room.  Then she had the nerve to tell her mom and dad that I just ruined all her stuff!  She never calls me.  When she was 14 and we got together I did everything to be nice, I took her shopping, bought her starbucks almost daily.  She never cleaned, helped me to cook, etc.  Finally I thought “I’ve had enough of kissing this kids ass” and quit doing for her.  Of course hubby thinks she’s great.  Good luck to you dear I understand.  It’s very emotionally draining.



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