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When one of your girlfriends are sick or going through something in her time of need what do you do to bring a little sunshine to what she sees as a darken day?
It really depends on what is going on. If it is just one of those days... Usually I will listen to whatever she needs to say (venting is a great release); Give her some options/advice if that is what she is looking for. Then we gradually will get onto a new topic, something more light-hearted & humorous. She is hilarious so it doesn’t take much to get her to laugh once I’ve helped redirect her thoughts.
If it something more serious, listen, listen, listen!!! Toss in a bit of advice if needed for perspective and listen some more!
When we lived closer I would do something small like buy her a card or send her some flowers. She isn’t much of a touchy-feely person or gift person but she always appreciates the gesture.
I also love to send her books that make her smile, or provide inspiration. I know they will always brighten her day!
Love, Light & Blessings,
Miss T
“It’s never to late to become what you might have been” - George Elliot
Great Mystical. Being that my oldest daughter is my best friend when she comes to me with her issues, I first pray with her then we discuss the subject and I will give her my opinions only for her to weigh them and use what she feels is worthy of her situation, then there are times I will send her flowers or a card or we would go shopping or out to dinner/lunch.
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
Depends on the situation. Flowers and a visit, a funny text, a shoulder to cry on, an offer to run over her husband, back up and run him over again..... whatever it takes.
Tulip
LOL@Tulip not run over the man lol
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
Sending books or a magazine does it for one of my freinds and another I have to have that listening ear then move on to somethingelse that is not so heavy and she really relaxes and then the laughter comes back I know we made some progress and time to move on.
high five to Tulip!!!
Whatever I can do. Whatever the situation needs a friend to do short of jail tulip!!!!
Since I have been here, I’ve recieved cards, flowers, books and calls plus extra notes of support on Facebook. Those are just my fab friends so I can only imagine what you ladies would do to someone you have knowen longer.
And a new doctor!!!
So, I pay it forward to do all I am able to do
Xx
If in town, I would bring dinner or flowers or invite her out. Out of town, I would call or send a book or card.
Tulip-I sure wish I could get somebody to run over my ex!
Love it Tulip!!
Lunch, a pretty card, gift certificate to her special place, mani/pedi, a giant hug and some of my homemade soup!
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