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Without going into to much detail ..Last year my husband and I split up for about 8 months and now we are happier than ever. During the time we were apart we both told our parents what was going on. Now y mother in law wont accept me as a frind on FB. She says she loves me and is behind with whatever choices my husband make. What to make of this.




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      Daphne wrote May 5, 2011
    • Being that we don’t know the details of your split, it’s hard to make any assumptions, here...but i’m going to go out on a limb (how unlike me).

      Do you suppose that there are comments on your MIL’s FB page that she is afraid you might find offensive?

      I suspect your MIL didn’t like what she heard while you and your huz were split and she’s harboring some anger...her comment about being “behind whatever decision your husband makes” sounds a little passive-aggressive to me in that she is not addressing her feelings toward YOU.

      If you are offended simply because she won’t accept your FB request, let it go...if there is more to it, i suggest that you talk to her WITH your husband present...afterall, she supports his decisions.  Maybe she needs more convincing that his decision warrants showing YOU some respect and forgiveness.

      Just my two cents!




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      Vikki Hall wrote May 5, 2011
    • My feeling on this is your marriage is between you and your husband and no one else. If she has issues it’s on her!!!! You can’t take that into your marriage.

      Now if your hubz listens to her opinions over yours then thats a problem that needs to be addressed with your hubz!




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      Cheekymonkey wrote May 5, 2011
    • estatic well, from someone that has my mom in law on fb all I can say is let it be. I love my mom in law and I’m lucky BUT I have to watch somethings I don’t want her to know but it would have gone over badly if I didn’t accept her.
      That’s why here is just mine. We all have to have somewhere just to be so to speak. If all is well other wise I agree with Vikki your marriage is only between two.
      Trust me on that one. Sometimes it feels mine has to many people in it if I’m not careful.
      As long as you and your hubby are good that is what matters.

      Cris




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      Monay wrote May 15, 2011
    • I agree with the other ladies.  Let it go.  Put that time and energy towards your relationship.  Good Luck!




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