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How long have you been married?  Name three things that are important to you in a marriage.




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote May 15, 2011
    • 7 years

      Honesty
      Fidelity
      Respect




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      Vikki Hall wrote May 15, 2011
    • 17 years

      Trust
      Respect
      Humor




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      Mzd3 wrote May 16, 2011
    • 21 years

      same as above




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      Mamapan wrote May 16, 2011
    • it will be 20 years this coming September

      Understanding
      Mutual Respect
      Trust




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      Denise Richardson wrote May 16, 2011
    • We’ve been married for 10 years what is the utmost important to me in my marriage is:

      Honesty
      Fidelity
      Romance




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      Monay wrote May 16, 2011
    • I will be married 19 years in July and my top three are:

      Communication- have to be able to talk to each other
      Trust- that we will both be faithful
      Romance - more than just sexestatic

      Thanks for sharing ladies!!!




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      Djo1 wrote May 16, 2011
    • 24 years in July

      Love
      Respect
      Trust




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      Msj wrote May 16, 2011
    • I am going to answer this even though not “married” yet, we have been together 6 years with the exeption of 2 mini breakups (we are getting married) ok with that said;

      I feel the most important thing (after having God be the main source of your relationship) is:

      When You get upset, BEFORE you take the issue to your spouse, take a time out and think about your part in the situation, even if he did something really offensive. We all play a part. Even a minute part. May even be as small as putting up with a particular action.  

      Anyway, think about your own part, what you can do to change your part. Then Chill out - Then calmly talk to him
      WHEN  he is calm too, and do this in a manner that is not snippy. Even acknowledge your part.  

      Works wonders. I know. Things have changed in my relationship, sure he is still an um ok a donkey ?   lol
      but hey that’s the guy I love.... hehe

      But you know what, when I changed the way I approach things, he began to change too.
      1.God
      2.Think about your part in a ‘disagreement or situation“.
      3.Talk to him when your calm and in a nice tone.

      Thats it.
      Peace




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      Tuliplady wrote May 16, 2011
    • Nine years with this wonderful man and 15 years with the other jerk.

      Three most important,
      Honesty,
      Trust
      Patience

      Tulip




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      Marya1961 wrote May 17, 2011
    • 26 years this October

      Stability
      Creativity
      Endurance

      Nothing is easy in this life, and in our marriage together these three important things got us through..everything else is cake!estatic




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      Mary Clark wrote May 17, 2011
    • This coming June 9th my husband and I will have been married for 27 years.  It’s not been an easy road at all and many times I wanted to throw in the towel but for some reason I didn’t.  We have been through ALOT but I truly believe that with God’s help we both have been able to survive all the bad stuff. With that said, the most important things in our marriage are:
      LOVE
      TRUST
      HONESTY

      If you have those the other good stuff will follow...happy




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      Frannie1964 wrote May 19, 2011
    • Married 15 years

      Respect

      Space

      Communication




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