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So need help reinventing myself ladies... since that went along with my screwed up life.. so how do i get happy with me again.. If i ever was




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jun 9, 2011
    • Do some serious soul searching within yourself first, ask yourself what really makes (me) happy? Then begin to do those things also take it day to day and just try new things something you never thought you’d find yourself doing, get into new circles to make new friends, redo your wardrobe take up a class in a hobby you may like but never got the chance to do.




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      Cathie Beck wrote Jun 9, 2011
    • I agree with Neicy’s advice. It’s solid and to me it’s the only way we are our Real selves.  

      Wishing you the best!  

      Cathie




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      Max0125 wrote Jun 9, 2011
    • I would take Neicy’s wise advice.

      A wise friend once told me that we do not reinvent ourselves. We merely stop listening to the voices that tell us who we “should” be and tune into the voices that guide us to the person we are meant to be. Ask yourself everyday “What do I really want to do today?“. You never know where this will take you and how much fun you will have!estatic

      If I had ignored this advice, I would have mised out on taking pilates and kick boxing, both of which I love.

      Best wishes!

      Mary




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      Kathy Holmes wrote Jun 10, 2011
    • Oh, that is excellent advice, Mary! Whenever I notice I’m on a downward spiral, I shake out of it by doing something totally “me” - which often doesn’t seem to be what everybody else is doing - only because so many try to follow the crowd. Let’s all be ourselves.

      Kathy




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      Kmarie wrote Jun 11, 2011
    • I was pondering the question to really reinvent one self one must fully let go of the past, form new habits and let go of the ones holding one back. Whether it is emotional, mental, physical or spiritual




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      Cathie Beck wrote Jun 12, 2011
    • I agree, Kmarie. To change we have to let go of something to make room for new ideas and beliefs and understanding of ourselves. It’s a process beyond changing our hair style or fashion styles, it’s attitude as well. ;oD  

      Cathie




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