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Ever feel like you were invisible to those around you?




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      Anne E wrote Jul 2, 2011
    • Actually, sometimes I feel less than invisible.  By that I mean sometimes I feel regarded in a negative way.  I am a plus size person, so am hard to miss.

      I live near a major university and there are a lot of college students around.  Most of them are very nice, but some are dismissive of me.  I guess they can’t imagine being 50 and living in our apartment complex, but you never know.




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      Linda L wrote Jul 2, 2011
    • I never feel invisible here on this site. Sometimes at work luncheons I feel my presence doesn’t matter because just group of friends chat and I’m ignored. I know that’s just the way people mingle and sometimes I’ll butt in.

      Anne, you‘re not invisible to me, you are a fabulous person!  

      Cc-u, I’m glad you‘re a part of fab40. Remember we‘re here to support you if you need to talk.  Have a great holiday weekend. See you around. heart

      Linda




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      Tuliplady wrote Jul 2, 2011
    • Maybe sometimes when I’m alone in a crowd, but no I don’t usually feel invisible.




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      Marya1961 wrote Jul 3, 2011
    • Anne-you are a nice person!

      CC-u—you matter here, it is a wonderful place to meet other women and share.

      I have felt that way from time to time, but wake myself up and realize that whatever I do in life depends on me.estatic




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      Vikki Hall wrote Jul 3, 2011
    • I sometimes wish that I was..... But generally I don’t even think about that. I’m sorry if you feel that way heartbreak
      As the fine Ladies here have already said it you will not be invisible here with us estatic




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jul 3, 2011
    • YES! at work around the drama queens and I’d like to keep it that way LOL.




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      Cathie Beck wrote Jul 4, 2011
    • CC-u,

      I was to the X during the marriage, and now I try to be invisible to him since I have to share the property until the divorce is final. But I’m not invisible to other people. This morning my old wolf dog has me wishing I could be invisible for just half an hour, LOL.  

      You won’t be invisible here, as the others have told you. ;oD  

      Anne, you‘re a sweetheart and we all know it! College kids ignore everyone not their age.

      Cathie




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      Dori Robinson wrote Jul 8, 2011
    • I have noticed that I am more invisible now that I am 40.  But I truly don’t mind.  It is actually a refreshing change to be recognized for my wit or intelligence, instead of my hoots or my bootie.  Call me a Cougar, and risk having your eyes raked out.  Grrrrrrrrr.




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