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So what’s so social about this site if you can’t even share links without paying the site to do so? Who else feels slighted by not being allowed to share your favorite links with your friends?




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What’s so social and special is the friendships and the love connected with those friendships. It’s not about coming here to post a bunch of links this is not what its about, its about sharing and caring and helping one another and besides most people here don’t like having to click on a bunch of links just to be informed we prefer to be able to come to your post and see the info. instead of having to click on a bunch of links IMO.happy


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      Denise Richardson wrote Jul 19, 2011
    • What’s so social and special is the friendships and the love connected with those friendships. It’s not about coming here to post a bunch of links this is not what its about, its about sharing and caring and helping one another and besides most people here don’t like having to click on a bunch of links just to be informed we prefer to be able to come to your post and see the info. instead of having to click on a bunch of links IMO.happy




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      Cheekymonkey wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • heart hmmmm maybe I’m off tonight ( which is really early morning 1 am ) but it shouldn’t but this question bothered me. Like I said I’m probally just off.
      So, if I may I’ll tell you what amazing and deep connection this site gives and it’s NOT the site persay it’s the women here. The friendships ate deep and as real as if you live next door to them. The vast amount of insight, knowledge, support and wisdom still makes me amazed at times.
      The site is free. Free to all but for a small fee if you choose you can upgrade which a perk is posting links. It’s reasonable and fair.
      That’s all. Gosh I did well for being off my game tonight lol cheeky moment there lol
      Cris




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      Mzd3 wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • I dont feel slighted at all...I love this site, and the ladies on here are wonderful. So glad I have met them.




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      Mary Clark wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • Well..I’ve been a member since 2008 and I love it.  I’m all about supporting others and the small fee I pay to be able to share my links is nothing. As the others have stated these sites cost money to run..they don’t run all by themselves.  So in order for me to continue to enjoy the site, to stay connected to the many women I have developed friendships with and to share what I want...I pay the fee.  So much so that I’m paid up for several years in advance!

      I’m sorry you feel this way but your perception of the site is NOT how it is.




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      Frannie1964 wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • I agree with all of the abovehappyheartheart




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      Vikki Hall wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • Good Morning!

      Anon I’m sorry you feel slighted. I’m sure there was no intention for anyone to feel slighted at all. As previously stated it costs to run a site like this. I don’t mind paying it at all. I do have a business I like to share info about but that is not just what it’s about here.  

      We actually interact with each other. We laugh, cry, shake our heads, pray and encourage each other. Just as if we were together in person.

      So maybe you haven’t had the opportunity to be involved with us. I suggest you try that and then see if this questions still applies.

      heart




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      Tuliplady wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • I don’t feel slighted at all.  I’m not a paying member because for now it’s simply not in my budget (someday soon!).  I come here for the friendship and the interesting people.  If I want to share links or follow links to other things, I’ll go to fb or somewhere.




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      UK Girl wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • Look at it another way if every night you had everyone round for drinks and cake and biscuits and not once did anyone stump up for the refreshments or tidy up or even help with the fuel bill you would get annoyed  

      so the fee is to cover the cost of us having a place of sanctuary and friendship I have been a member since 2008 and I love it - I have to pay and I’m trying to sort my PayPal account out as it’s been hacked but to me it’s worth every penny honey




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      Daphne wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • Another gutless anonymous whiner.  If you feel so strongly about not being able to share links and if you want to be taken seriously, stand up and be accounted for.  This anonymous whining is for the birds.




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      Tuliplady wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • Amen Daphne!




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      Sandils1962 wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • If you don’t like the site then don’t come here.  I am a paying member and am glad I am.  I have made numerous friends here.  I think you should not be ashamed to say who you are if you are an adult like the rest of us here.




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      Msj wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • I feel welcome... I dont pay...yet.   I have made many friends and get MUCH support from thes Ladies.  

      No one is attacking you.

      When YOU ask a question, be ready for a response.

      I’m sorry you feel attacked. It is not that at all. We are trying to explain what this site is about.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • Anon, there was a time where I couldn’t afford to pay and that didn’t stop me from keeping with the site and enjoying the friends I’ve made here, there are benefits to being a member here and one of them are the points system the more you post the more points you gain and the more points you gain there are rewards like a year of free premium membership I think you should reconsider not just for the freebie but because it is a wonderful site and lots of friendly people here with lots of love we don’t mean to come off as rude or mean its just that we love this site, the creator and each other and we will defend our space to the end, so please think about it and give it a chance sorry you can’t afford to pay at this time there was also a special friend here who paid for me a years membership also and this is how we roll here we support each other in ways such as that so don’t think we‘re a bunch of careless people but hopefully your finances will get better where one day soon you could afford to and you’ll see its all worth it, being a paid member or not.happy




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      Daphne wrote Jul 20, 2011
    • I guess she told us.  

      We all have our own spin on the situation and, to a SMALL degree i can see what anon is saying BUT...saying anything anonymously creates an air of mistrust.  The ladies who frequent this site get to know each other and trust each other.  

      Also...beginnning a conversation with a sincere heart does not begin with...“So what’s so social about this site...“.  It’s an thinly veiled judgment with semi-threatening undertones.




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