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if you were married for 21 yrs but
didn’t love the person would you stay with him just for the  finanial reason? or just deal with the money issue and move on?




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    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Vikki Hall wrote Sep 4, 2011
    • So is it your really are not in LOVE anymore? Or is it lack of LUST? Or is it just the winter time of your marriage?

      If I was truly NOT in love I would not stick around. We both deserve to be loved as well as be in love.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Sep 4, 2011
    • Why waste your life with someone you don’t love? I need to be happy with the one I’m with I’d have to move on.




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      Tuliplady wrote Sep 4, 2011
    • Unless I had someone else waiting for me, or really hated his guts, I’d stay.  I’m lazy and moving on just because I’m not crazy in love seems like a lot of work at this point in my life.




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      Vikki Hall wrote Sep 4, 2011
    • TL that’s what I mean by winter time! Feelings ebb and flow and no way can you be “crazy” in love like new love.




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      Tuliplady wrote Sep 4, 2011
    • You‘re right Vikki, and I think we all go thru that during different times in our marriages.




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      Necy wrote Sep 6, 2011
    • Do you remember why you married him? heart How are you being treated?...finances come and go...Life is what you make it... I was married for 21 years and ended up in divorce...I stayed in a mentally abusive relationship because of my kids and that was not a good idea because we all suffered from it...and now reap the negative junk that came from it...I am happily married to a man without the $$$’s but he treats me like a Queen!!! Are you doing all you can for the marriage? So many questions to ask yourself...I had the money but too much drama...I am still alive and well without it... maybe a good counselor would be in order...???




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