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If you were divorced and you and the ex share in the custody of the child/ren and he has the right to pick up the kids, but sends his current woman to get them how would you handle this?

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    • +1 votes vote up vote up

      Tuliplady wrote Sep 30, 2011
    • I’d be delighted because that would mean I never had to see his ugly face!




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      40yearsyoung wrote Sep 30, 2011
    • Me personally probably would accept it and handle very mature like. 1. The ex is only doing this to get under your skin.

            2. When he see its not bothering you or getting to you his little plan back fires on him.

            3. Keep in mine men are like little kids..You know a little kid teases nah nah I got some cookies to the other kids. Well that’s what he doing....So don’t let it get to you cause that is what he want




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      Daphne wrote Sep 30, 2011
    • I guess it would depend how long this “current woman” had been in his (and my children’s) life.  If he changes women frequently, i would have something to say about it.  If this is a serious relationship with a possible future, i’d probably request that i KNOW who is picking up the children in advance.




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      Msj wrote Sep 30, 2011
    • Tulip you make me laugh!

      Depends on the relationship with the woman. I would like to think that we could all be an extended family.




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      Cc-u wrote Oct 2, 2011
    • Are there certain ground rules about picking up the kids in the divorce settlement?  Also, how well do you know this person?  If I didn’t know her well I’d feel the same way as a complete stranger picking them up




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      Momofthreeprincess wrote Oct 3, 2011
    • This happens to me all the time and I do have a good relationship with my ex and his current GF.  For us its about the kids not our feelings about each other.  We do not fight in front of the kids - we do it be email knowing that each of us has a copy in case. His GF has been the one that has helped me with my daughter and understands how hard it is for me to raise them on my own because her mother did the same.




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      Nita P wrote Jan 26, 2012
    • he comes to get them himself or miss out on seeing them




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