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I have wondered about it before. I think it’s sort of natural to wonder what your situation would be like if it were the opposite of what it is today.
What if I had gone to that other college? What if I had not moved so many times? What if I didn’t do XYZ...I think it’s all sort of “brain candy” - that stuff that you roll around in your brain when you have some quiet time.
I never think of it, but I know this IF I didn’t have my wonderful daughters and g-baby my life would not be as fulfilling as it is today. Just earlier as I was getting a hair trimming my daughters and I was having the time of our lives laughing it up in the place all the other hairdresser’s kept saying “you all are so funny together.”
My daughters and I are very close and we have so much fun together so I know my life wouldn’t be as lively without them.
That is a question that I’ve never pondered because as a child I had always wanted children. Thank God my desire was granted 3 wonderful times! I believe my life would be incomplete and unfulfilled without being a mother. They are the loves of my life!
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Butterflyrose
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I don’t have any children and yes sometimes I wonder. I think being a mom makes you a different person and I’ll never know how or who that person is but I’ve come to terms with it.
I donot know what Iwould have done without my son, my only child. I too got him young but it was a joy raising him and I did not go through the hardships of raising him. I often wondered what it would have been like to have more kids though. I wanted 3 kids but instead I had 3 miscarriages and have grown from that but I really love where I am.
I hope you all don’t get the impression that I’m wishing that my life was different - I sure don’t! I love my hubby & kids. I am just a big thinker. I’m one of those people who can go for hours without saying anything but my brain is going the whole time.
I was very lucky to have my son since there were so many gyne issues with me, he is a blessing.![]()
I wouldnt have it any other way, my kids ARE my life....and now grandkids. I love my 1 yr old grandson so much, and have identical twin grand daughters on the way, I cant wait !
my children have made me more patient, less self absorbed, tolerant, happy, giggley girly like, childish at times. i am caring, loving and i know i can be like this to others.