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Do you ever feel so grumpy you just unload on people? I even snapped at people on FB. Too much going on maybe. Embarrasing too. So How did you “get over it“?

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      Mzd3 wrote Apr 10, 2012
    • Have been super stressed lately and yes, I do to my hubby, he can take it happy  hope the stress lowers soon, for you too happy




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      Linda L wrote Apr 11, 2012
    • Yes, I take a deep breath and later I talk about upsetting things to a trustworthy coworker. Sometimes they unload stuff on me too.  At home my poor daughter hears about it.




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      Mary Clark wrote Apr 11, 2012
    • My suggestion and one I’ve learned to do (and I do relapse)..is to take one day at a time....and learn to THINK before I SPEAK!!Even in the midst of our own chaos and dysfunction...we ALL have something to be grateful for and postive in our lives....IF we only focus on it.  Learn to concentrate on postive things.  

      Personally I find it exhausting to be “grumpy“.  When I do get like that I’m really mad at myself for being that way. That is when I pray to God to help me get through it and that is when I turn my focus on helping others or doing something positive for me.  IT’s all a choice.  You and you only CHOOSE to be grumpy.  Its all a choice.
      And I also think to myself...unloading on someone else is not fair! Do I want someone to unload on me just because they are having a bad day?  Ummm NO!  

      Everyone is fighting some type of battle..therefore we all need to be sensitive of what someone might be going through.  But it doesn’t give you the right to unload on anyone...that’s my two cents.happy




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      Butterflyrose wrote Apr 11, 2012
    • It’s a rare thing for me to be grumpy. God, prayer, positivity and my ability to use  self-control allows me to expend my energy in activities that I enjoy.

      An act of kindness is a gift given
      Butterflyrose

      #enjoylifeheart




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      Tuliplady wrote Apr 11, 2012
    • I get that way some days, though far less often than I used to.  Some days you just gotta go back an apologize to those who you snapped at.




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      Marya1961 wrote Apr 12, 2012
    • Normally I am on an even keel giving me the ability to keep my actions under control, but when I am driven to my limit, my sister is always there for me as I am for her.




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      Msj wrote Apr 12, 2012
    • Thanks for the replies. I don’t feel I allowed myself to get grumpy (yet do at the same time)...

      so far this month, my son’s friend (I call them my Burbank*Brats as I have known most of them since they were 12) well, one stabbed his gf (one I really care for) in the chest 19 times around the corner from my house. She was leaving another “Brats” condo with her bf.... I know I can’t fix it... but I still had to mourn, then look at his pic on FB. He was so sweet... had to process that. The media reported her as a transient which is NOT true.

      Meanwhile my neighbor and friend of 20 yrs, her live in bf killed her cat he admitted repeatedly dunking Ringo in the tub until he died. I took care of her a few days and My bf called the cops.... they cant do anything and the bf and his mother still live with her....  

      She has a detective guiding her. (Of course he denied to the det.) I had told her sister and father SOMEone better come here NOW and take care of this. I cannot handle it .... so they are giving him a 30 day notice and a restraining order! That is what the detective said.... anyway... I feel bad for her  but she made the choice...  

      So, I am under a lot of stress, and given the circumstances trying not to snap at people.... I go to church recovery and a group therapy.... and in school. Being on Spring break I believe, is giving me too much time to think.... I am trying to take more walks etc.... bleh

      I think I just unloaded - tongue out




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      Msj wrote Apr 12, 2012
    • ps and yesterday was the birthday of my bf sister -death from bone cancer last year... I most of the time feel like I am fine and procesing things ok.... then BAM!  GRRR umpy.




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      Msj wrote Apr 12, 2012
    • PPS:  Thank you for letting me be myself.... I feel  better already.... worried




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